Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

That who on yahoo answers think that marriage life is just like living in a hell?? I think it is? Thank for your answers!! Please don't get offended by my question , people who are happily married...

2007-11-20 16:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by anamika s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I dated in highschool while I was a freshman and he a senior. We went our seperate ways when he graduated and left for the marines and I had to finish school. We both married, but still felt like we should have been together, after divorcing we looked for each other and now we are back together and getting it right this time! He wants me to wear white and being our second I don't agree. I am ok with wearing a wedding dress for him...but I think it should be off white of some shade....ivory, cream, champaign...but he insists on white, because it should have been done this way the first time? What do you think? I also feel I look terrible in white! I look much better in something with a golden tone.

2007-11-20 16:10:03 · 28 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Weddings

what is wrong with my face? dont give me ohh he so cute stuff ethier. I am very ugly. Probley close to the uglyest person in my city. I am so ugly people dont want to talk to me. They actally try to avoid me. I have thought of killing my self.
I dont even go to school anymore. Im sick and tired of getting made fun of and looking at everyone else that are so much better looking than me have fun successful lifes.
I dont know what to do anymore. I am failing school. i quit pretty much.

I hate my parents for making me butt ugly. But even i think a butt is better looking than me.
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/3223/picture2135lw0.jpg

I do not know what to do or what plastic surgery i need.Plus i have no money to even go and get plastic surgery.

2007-11-20 16:08:57 · 9 answers · asked by robert m 1 in Singles & Dating

spend one day with the love of your life and /she dies
or life a lifetime with a close friend...no chemistry though.?

2007-11-20 16:06:56 · 12 answers · asked by Mit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

PS he's 39 and i'm 19

2007-11-20 16:06:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I went outside and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...

2007-11-20 16:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well he is in my math class. and he always does sumtin funny and right after he does it he looks at me. he also walks really close to my desk when he walks by. does he like me?

2007-11-20 16:02:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me clarify, he calls me names such as bi*tch, cu*nt, who*re, sl*ut, etc....

he tells me that he only calls me those names only in bed, but he has now started to call me these names when we are in the car together talking, or kissing in the car, or walking on the street together.

should i worry ? he is an abuser in the beginning stage ? what should i do ?

2007-11-20 15:53:01 · 56 answers · asked by psychic clara 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all, I am 22 and she's 31 with one kid...divorced. Some may say that's a age gap but it doesn't concern me. We both work in EMS and met at one of the stations she works at. We've developed a nice friendship but from the start we've been sorta flirting around. She'll turn her head and smile at me just for no reason, she's let me hold her and play with her hair..massages while we watch TV. She calls or txts almost everyday to check up and tells me "sweet dreams honey!" then wants to know when I'm coming back up. There doesn't seem to be a doubt she likes me. There's another guy which wants to date her and she's voiced that he's alot of drama, doesn't really trust him but the other night they seemed to be a bit close/comfortable on the couch. I would like some women's opinions b/c I'm not sure if I'm receiving this right to chance hurting a friendship. Help!

2007-11-20 15:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl- she likes my jokes- i doubt she likes me though. what am i supposed to do??????

2007-11-20 15:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about renting some candelabras for my wedding. The problem is, I know my guests would like to take them home. I come from a family where it is customary for the guests to take the centerpieces home. How can I tell my guests they will not be able to take them home, without hurting feelings?

2007-11-20 15:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by T Lady 2 in Weddings

Last weekend my husband stayed out til 3am at the local VFW type club that he goes too and after a long night of drinking decided that he'd say yes to giving the bartender a ride home. He's been getting to the point lately where he won't miss a Friday night of going out, no matter how tired he is. He's never asked me once to go there (mainly because we have a 2 yr old who I have to stay home with if he's going out (but it doesn't mean we can't find a sitter) to hang out with him but I've also never asked if I could go either. Lately he's been staying later than normal too. And won't answer his phone, he'll say he didn't hear it or something. Last weekend I surprisingly showed up there to find him leaving at the same time I was pulling up and the bartender was in his car. He told me later that he was asked if he could give her a ride home because her ride had left and he said ok. Should I be concerned? He never given me any reason in the past to not trust him. Am I overreacting?

2007-11-20 15:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by mama158432 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, it starts like this my husband comes home from working a 12 hour shift .Goes to bed, then when he gets up he don't seem horney or anything like that. Until about 20 or 30 min before going in to work he starts getting a heart on. Now here I am thinking why you get one on right before work why not when you are at home, it seems alittle weird to me and I'm the wife, I feel like if he's horney he should want to have sex where he will not have a big thing standing up when he goes to work. I'M CONFUSED ABOUT THIS CRAP....

2007-11-20 15:45:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 15:44:56 · 25 answers · asked by kiwiwaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 15:44:03 · 1 answers · asked by sexycute32 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have been married for 15 years and your husband never remembers the wedding anniversary or aknowledgies it at all what would you advice?

2007-11-20 15:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

4 years ago I met this guy in college. He adored me a lot; however, he scared to talk to me because I always acted like I don't care. We are also from different cultures. We secretly loved each other for 2 years. Before I graduated I told him that I am leaving. He looked very upset, but he told me good luck.

I moved to different states. I missed him everyday. I searched for him. I found his website. He wrote poetries about us. He claimed--he loves me. He does not know where I was or what to do, but he will wait for me. I contacted him. He was very happy. I was not ready for a relationship; therefore, I turned him down. He was hurted. Although, we kept in touch as friends for over 2 years. He wrote 22 poems about us. He has been supportive and respected my goals. He has never bother me about anything. On the other hand, I kept push him away and made him upset. He mad at me for 3 months. Luckily,he talked to me now. He said, he wants to be friends as always.

What do you think

2007-11-20 15:42:34 · 12 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if your medically challenged spouse gave permission?

2007-11-20 15:42:04 · 20 answers · asked by Jyssi Leeann 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m 22 years old and i love a girl frm last 1 year now we want to marry and our love is known to her parents and they took her to their villege now she wants to come to me but her parents kept her under vision in her room she cant run from there can anybody help me to take legal action against her parents cause she is 19 years old and they are forcibly marryng her there she refused so many proposals but now her dad is doing her marriage in court as he gave bribe to all people regarding this please help me for this any legal advice !!! she tride to go to police but they r with her dad as he gave bribe to them also..i dont know wht to do?????please help....

2007-11-20 15:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by sameer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i stop my mom from calling me harsh words.every night i go to bed crying and wake up with puffy eyes all because my feelings are crashed.

i do everything i suppose to do cook clean pass my classes with straight a's and i still get treated like the step child.i've been going threw this 18 years of my life and im tired.My boyfriend told me to hang in there until graduation and come stay with him OR he'll help save up for me an apartment if i dont feel comfortable staying with him.

2007-11-20 15:39:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm married to a great guy that I love with all my heart.
My first true love (6 years ago and not sexual type of first love) is a unreturned love but we remained very close friends throughout the years. I was never able to completely get over him I haven't talked to him in months nor have I thought much about him.
but....I had a dream last night that I was at the mall with some people and he showed up and gave me a shy smile and hugged me. We talked a little about how I ended up feeling as I did about him. Then, he wrapped his arms around my waist and hugged me sweetly and didn't let go. We stayed like that with my arms around his neck for a while. I felt safe and warm and loved. He said "People will see us" referring to my friends and I just told him I didn't care and we held each other in this safe, warm embrace a while longer and then I woke up...

All day I was smiling and I felt as if everything would be ok (not that anything was actually wrong to begin with)

Interpretations?

2007-11-20 15:38:38 · 8 answers · asked by myl0vely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i didnt. is this the right thing? i mean its not hurting her?

2007-11-20 15:38:32 · 2 answers · asked by jory 1 in Singles & Dating

I've asked twice in a row, but we had a lot of issues with our families in between those two dates. Now it's his turn to ask and how do you drop hints that you'd like to go out again?

2007-11-20 15:38:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 15:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by Ghiacy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help.
Why?

2007-11-20 15:36:51 · 2 answers · asked by Steve S. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys can be so heartless and cruel. This guy that lives in my area. He wanted me to call him, but I was hesitant to. So I called this weekend...left him a voicemail. Then he texts me saying that he has no intention of hanging out with me or talking to me. And today he texts me say "Ur ugly! You sound like a guy. Piss off and leave me alone!!!"

What is his deal?! Why does he have to treat me this way!??!

I'm 25 and he is 27.

2007-11-20 15:35:58 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Why is this? Anyone has an idea? Everytime he wants to tell me something nice and beautiful he says it in different language and usually via text message...almost never in my face. Is he shy? Is he insecure or what? Pls help, I am going nuts here! :)

2007-11-20 15:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by loca_y_morena 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met some people who were truly in love with their significant others until their paren'ts decided they shouldn't marry them because they didn't think he/she was good enough.

Is your family's opinion the first priority or would you fight for love and justice???

2007-11-20 15:34:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well at the begening of 7th grade i decided to try and make some new friends---somewhat good somewhat bad. i met this one girl who seemed nice at first but sh is taking advantage of me and usally im a learder but when it comes to her.....
any way she always grabs my binder and stuff at school, like once time she took my pewncil and just put it in her stuff and i made her giv it back and she punched my arm hard and said jeez, you mean. or she'll hit me on the arm or back if i ask her to stop or something. like today we had a feild trip and we had 50 kids on the bus including me, and im closterphobic so i hated being in the bus packed, trapped, and it smelled like smoke, and yes i had to sit by her, well i asked her to open the window (because iw a freaking out and needed fresh air) and she shoved me partly of the seat and said "no im the one who sits by the window and i dont want it open" and later she asded for my cell # andi told her i didnt no it and she said i was retarded...help

2007-11-20 15:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex boyfriend really liked me while we were going out but i just didnt feel the same way. ive dated another guy that ireally liked since then and after he broke up with me i was really depressed. my first ex bf keeps asking if i wanna get back together with him and always tells me he loves me!! it makes things worse for me and i dont know how to tell him to stop it without being mean!

2007-11-20 15:33:05 · 17 answers · asked by Chola Kc 2 in Singles & Dating