Is lieing to not hurt your gf ok? i mean she says she gets her feelings hurt when i watch porn. so i told her?

Question

i didnt. is this the right thing? i mean its not hurting her?

Answer 1

And when she finds out that you were lying to her, she will start to wonder what else you've been lying to her about.

A lot of women don't like porn because they feel that it is disrespectful to women. What type of porn you are watching and how much time you spend watching it is what she should be concerned about, not that you watch it.

"Porn creep" is an expression that refers to a condition common to porn addicts. They reach a point that their sense of what a relationship is becomes so twisted and unrealistic that they are unable to perform with a flesh and blood woman.

Sit down and talk to her about what you are looking at. Ask her what her concerns are, what does she think you are watching. Really listen to her concerns and think about how what she is worried about applies to what you do.

And if she decides to leave you over this, that is her right. If she doesn't want a man who watches porn, she shouldn't have to have one.

Answer 2

no its not. If you "love" her, you should tell her the truth.

Also, if shes wants you to stop looking at it, STOP.
Care about how she feels, not about how you feel.