First of all, I am 22 and she's 31 with one kid...divorced. Some may say that's a age gap but it doesn't concern me. We both work in EMS and met at one of the stations she works at. We've developed a nice friendship but from the start we've been sorta flirting around. She'll turn her head and smile at me just for no reason, she's let me hold her and play with her hair..massages while we watch TV. She calls or txts almost everyday to check up and tells me "sweet dreams honey!" then wants to know when I'm coming back up. There doesn't seem to be a doubt she likes me. There's another guy which wants to date her and she's voiced that he's alot of drama, doesn't really trust him but the other night they seemed to be a bit close/comfortable on the couch. I would like some women's opinions b/c I'm not sure if I'm receiving this right to chance hurting a friendship. Help!
2007-11-20 15:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you that helps a lot. She's been divorced for a while now so it's not a rebound problem to my knowledge. I know that I'm 22 and I realized before I gave this thought that people generally get caught up with ages.."judging the book by the cover." I don't believe she sees me as a kid at all...we've had some deep conversations and I would say we've built a good bit of trust. We are not co-workers "per-say"...I am over the billing for the county she works in.
2007-11-20 16:24:21 · update #1
First of all, you are right... the age gap shouldn't be a problem. You are both adults! It seems like she is interested in you and maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move. I bet she is!!! If she is texting you everday and calling you, that's a sign! If you don't get with it you are going to loose her to Mr. Casaonva on the couch. As for the kid..who cares. It's only one child and she works, so she's not interested in money. If she doesn't want the relationship of "More than just friends". Don't worry about..there is alot of other girls that are your age that are Single & Looking.. Hope this helps and Good Luck!
2007-11-20 16:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by KARLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm, she said that shes not into that other guy because he is drama right? so maybe shes just playing around, nothing serious. or she could be trying to get you jealous or something. IF you really like her, go after her! She will be yours and not that other guy that you know is not right for her. Go ahead and ask her if she would like the relationship to be a little more serious. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-20 15:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by babyfaceheartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she recently divored? perhaps on the rebound? first i'd make sure she sees you as an equal, not as a kid. do you really want to tie yourself down when you're just starting life?
2007-11-20 15:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by love_to_knit! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't work together I'd say go for it..
But.. you should never date co-workers...
2007-11-20 15:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋