That who on yahoo answers think that marriage life is just like living in a hell?? I think it is? Thank for your answers!! Please don't get offended by my question , people who are happily married...
2007-11-20 16:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by anamika s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
totally agree. but, i think it also has to do with who you are married to. it's not whether he/she is perfect. it is whether you are perfect for each other. i like having someone in my life but i absolutely hate the married life i have now. nothing in common (except son) and arguing all the time.
2007-11-20 16:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by up all night 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think marriage - or more specifically YOUR marriage is a living hell, perhaps you need to examine why you are still married....or why you got married to begin with. Get a counselor or a lawyer.
Marriage is the most sacred union of a man and woman and it is work, hard work. No it's not a picnic everyday, but you get through those days by savoring the magical days which far out way the hard ones.
2007-11-21 00:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Believe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are days that it is hell but for the most part I am happily married. You do not have to live in hell. If it is better for you to get out that is what you need to do. Life is too short to be miserable and you deserve some happiness. I am sure that since you are in hell each day gets longer and longer.
2007-11-21 00:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what married life is like since I have never been married. However, it doesn't seem to be necessary or a good thing to me. You get married, and will probably be divorced in a few years so why go through all that stuff. Maybe if you plan to have kids but that is something I will never consider. Anyway it is not necessary to be married to have kids so I think marriage is pretty much unnecessary.
2007-11-21 00:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i disagree. i am happily married and for me, it's still the best decision i've made. me and my husband are happy, though at times we do have some petty misunderstandings -- but we're happy. =) maybe you're just married to the wrong person that's why marriage isn't working out for you. or maybe there's a lack of understanding , respect and communicaton that's why most marriages end up in hell.
to make your marriage work, be willing to communicate and be willing to listen. =)
2007-11-21 10:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by *~** gp **~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be from time to time; but, real love is not the warm fuzzies...real love, sometimes is just staying because you gave your word or because you know it's not best for the other person. Real love can walk through fire until the warm fuzzies return....and eventually if both of you stay together long enough, they will.
Been married for 16 years..sometimes happily and sometimes not; but always resolved to stay married...in the end it's worth it, because you kept your promise even when it wasn't easy.
If you're getting beat up or substance abuse is around..it's best to seperate...which may or may not include a divorce...depending on the situation.
By the way, no offense taken. :)
2007-11-21 00:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's nice to have someone who is always there for me when I need a hug, who is always on my team and watches my back. But it is... extremely difficult at times. Throw in kids and it's anarchy. Throw in inlaws and it's horrific. There are so many things to deal with... money issues... work problems, not to mention throwing in the fidelity wrench. It's real hard. Ya, definitely.
2007-11-21 00:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
relationships period are a strain after the new puppy love phase wears off. You just have to know that you can either choose to just sleep around or figure out a way to spice up the old. There is no cure
2007-11-21 00:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by hitop 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my mom and dad are happily married. 20 years +.
2007-11-21 00:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by shadow m 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I think it's great. Sorry. I mean it's not perfect all the time. It's a lot of work, and it means a lot of compromise. But, wow, if anything were ever worth it, this is.
2007-11-21 00:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by SS109 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋