PS he's 39 and i'm 19
2007-11-20 16:06:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's being a d o u c h e bag.
I'm pretty sure that he's had his share of youngins like you and he's just using that as part of his motivation for sex.
Don't give in to him.
You should find yourself a younger guy.
My friend(19) was in the same situation and he had sex with his boyfriend(37) because his boyfriend bought him expensive gifts. He regrets it so much.
2007-11-20 16:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are doing with such old guy?
Yuck!!! you're fresh, young more than likely very beautiful. Run run girl before you are knock up with 3 kids and he cheating on you with a 18 years, years later. Run away as fast as you can you are in danger of ruining your life. He does not love you otherwise he would leave you alone. Real love does not demand. Love is patient. Love knows right from wrong. Run girl run away. There something wrong with him wanting a young woman who really can be his daughter. If you think you love him go to a therapist or read a book on the subject. Exam why you think or feel you love him. If you were more like 24 I would understand a little better but 19, run away. You can find someone who respects your wishes and no pressure or even give you a ring with a promise to love and honor you. Honor learn the meaning of that word.
2007-11-20 16:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by treatsinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he would respect your wishes and quit pressuring you. It's that simple. I'm 57 years old and have been around that block a few times myself.
And so ... what? You give in to supposedly prove you love him, when apparently he doesn't really love you?! Love is a two way street. I'm so sorry, but I think he's just trying to get into your nickers. And this 39 year old is plenty old enough to know what he's doing, too.
I so wish you the best!!!
2007-11-20 16:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any one male or female that uses that kind of emotional blackmail is BAD NEWS. From personal experience. The best thing you can do is find a different boyfriend. Not because of the age difference because he is a USER, and may well be an ABUSER. I know I had to find out the hard way when my exwife graduated to trying to kill me.
2007-11-20 16:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who's interested in your heart and soul, not your ***...He's only after one thing. After he gets that, he'll get gone, or worse, WON'T get gone...He's trouble. Dump him before he hurts you emotionally and physically. (Don't give me that garbage about how gentle he is, either.) He's a user, a loser and an abuser. Get out and find a real man while you still can, and preferably one closer to your own age. Equally-yoked oxen pull the wagon best. Such an age difference may mean he's into pedophilia...
2007-11-20 16:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Roosterkroozer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not your boyfriend that's your dad. Turn it around on him and tell him if he truly loved you he would wait until you're ready. If he keeps pressuring you then you know all he wants is your bootie and he will dump you and move on to the next young thing when he has gotten what he wants.
2007-11-20 16:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would you want a boyfriend that is 39 yrs old? Geez....of course he wants sex...look at the age difference, but if he is 39 why is he using teenage lines about - if you love me you'll do me?
Old, Old, OLD...line of bull crap!
2007-11-20 16:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't willing to take your needs into concideration, im sorry, but he isn't the right guy for you. If HE REALLY loved you he would be okay with you having sex when YOU are ready...not just because he wants some.
2007-11-20 16:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he really loved you, he wouldn't try to pressure you into sex. If you don't want to have sex with him, DON'T! If he leaves you for it, you'll be better off because he was after you for the wrong thing!
2007-11-20 16:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him. You're 19, he's 39 (probably lying about it too).
2007-11-20 16:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by Boo! 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋