Today I went outside and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...
2007-11-20 16:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously, this always happens. Guys outside show they like me, like stare a lot/smile and sometimes compliment, but I usually ignored, but lately I signalled back... I don't really know what to do anymore.
2007-11-20 16:04:04 · update #1
are you a pretty girl. pretty girls are hard for guys to approach. fear of total rejection scares them off. you could have yelled at him to stop the car and talked to him. if guys aren't going to ask you out, maybe it is time you took the initiative.
2007-11-20 16:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys are just a little too shy to make a move, it isn't always the nice guys either, all guys get a little nervous around people they are attracted too. The idea of getting shut down really sucks. Sometimes we pick our nuts up and yes that is usually too late, unfortunatly. Their will be that guy who does though at the right time, so keep smiling and one day?
2007-11-21 00:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably hot and you intimidate them. Most guys don't have a clue what to say, so they said hello, smile and keep moving. When he yelled at you from the car, he wanted to talk to you but didn't know what to say. Guys are clueless. You may want to be more aggressive with them.
2007-11-21 00:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by ignoring them you send them the message loud and clear you arent interested in them so they are afraid you'll just reject them so they dont set theirslf up for rejection.
2007-11-21 00:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋