DOES HE LIKE ME? or is my boss causing trouble?

Question

i just got a new job. its a very small staff of four people. so far, i really like everyone i work with. my boss is new as of three months ago. she's not very professional, but she's very nice. one of the other people i work with is a very attractive male who is my age. i wasn't initially interested in him, he's not my type. he's athletic and i expected him to be a narcissistic jerk (bad judgment i know). he's actually very nice. but i still wasn't interested in him because i would assume he'd be taken or he wouldn't be into me, i really just hadn't considered it. then my trouble maker boss made a coment suggesting that she's never seen him talk so much before i came. she asked me if i was dating anyone. (she's funny). i said, "no, i'm VERY focused on school and work and men are distracting". i wouldn't make a move myself, but if he were to make a move on me, i don't think i could say no. does he really like me or is my boss just causing mischief? i hope he doesn't. i like this job.

she's not after him. she's old enough to be our moms. i think she just noticed we were having fun together. but maybe she see's somthing i don't

Answer 1

To be honest, I think she may just of noticed the change in him since you've been around (even though your boss is newer). I think it's harmless, maybe she knows he likes you or vice versa. I think she is just trying play imaginary match up. A lot of girls do it lol.

Answer 2

Not a good idea to date a coworker, especially in a small office. Too much drama can occur. If it doesn't work out, everyone in the office will feel uncomfortable, and that could cause your boss to have to choose who will leave.

Answer 3

be professional..
it means..work comes first..rest other things will only let u down..
so love ur job..n forget everything

Answer 4

Regardless, if you value your job, don't dip your pen in the company ink. :)