My b'friend is involved with some pretty dodgy guys through work. They get together almost every night and smoke stuff. Whenever Im around which is all the time as my b'friend doesn't really let me go out they try and hit on me and if I try to push them away my b'friend tells me to be a good girl and relax...I can never get away so end up havin sex with people I dont really want to but my b'friend says there his mates and they have needs and thats why he lets me live with him.
Last night I thought this guy was really nice and chatted to me a bit so I confided in him about what was goin on thinking he'd support me but instead he said Im a good girlfriend to my man!?
These guys have so much confidence just to walk in the house and start hitting on me and doing stuff knowing that my b'friend thinks they are his mates so are entitled to me...its like he is proud of it but Im sure these guys dont care they just come round to see him and use me buut my b'friend says he loves me?
2007-11-20 20:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am also nearly 8 weeks pregnant so they think its safe to not use condoms and if I argue it my b'friend tells me its not my choice men don't like them so get on with it!
2007-11-20 20:52:29 · update #1
All he sees you as is his sex slave. Get out of the relationship asap.
Think about it...hes pretty much letting his freinds rape you when you are not comfortable with it...
2007-11-20 20:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by lonewarrior 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what is your problem???
i think its very inmature of you to pin the problem on your bf, if he is an a** hole, you are crazy to put up with him.
and how is it possible that you call have sex with men you don't know just to be the submissive and stupid girlfriend?? and without protection?? you have a baby, a responsibility so if you have a bit of self-esteem left and want to do something good for your child and yourself, leave this creep bf of yours and get an aids test...
2007-11-21 07:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by chancro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THIS GUY!
He obviously does not give a damn about your needs and he does not at all respect you!
Get some respect for yourself and walk out on him, NOW!
I can guarentee everyone else on here will say the same thing, so please listen to everyone when they tell you this is not right, you need to get your dignety back and you need to let him know what he is doing is wrong!
2007-11-21 04:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to get out of there. Your boyfriend is not capable of loving you, or anyone other woman for that matter. If he did, he would value you much more than letting his mates get their grubby hands on you. Get out and maybe get a little counselling. So glad you are reaching out for help now.
Just read your update. I reckon your b/f is getting paid by his mates for sex with you which is why he insists you do it. Get out for you and baby's sake.
2007-11-21 04:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rinkidink 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
By God!
He is not in Love with you; but using you as a trump-card.
Drop him; otherwise you will end up in the alley ... thrown over there by none other than your "b/f".
Get out and reset your life by finding a true love which this world is full of.
2007-11-21 05:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by CILOVEU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE THERE NOW. Go to a friend's place, your parents, brother, sister, Aunt, halfway house. You're being raped. You need counselling. Get help. Now.
2007-11-21 04:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He does not love you, and is disrespecting you. You are disrespecting yourself by allowing him to do that to you. Get away from him. the next thing you know, he will be wanting to pimp you out too!!!
2007-11-21 04:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to have respect for your own life. Forget about this boyfriend, he doesn't respect you - this is not how you treat someone you love, and this is not what life is about. You need to break up with him asap!
2007-11-21 04:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke???
They are not mates, he is not a boyfriend.
They are tricks and he is a pimp.
Get out before they destroy your soul
2007-11-21 04:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by grrrl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he sounds really horrible to you!!!!!
you could be depriving yourself of the love you really deserve!!! what he is doing is sooooo wrong!!!!!! hes trying to justify it but it is wrong!!!!!!!!!
please please please try your best to leave you deserve so much better!!!
2007-11-21 17:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋