i'm 15 i lost my virgity about 6 months ago, i've been having sex very often with my girlfriend about 6 to 7 times a week.......
she's on birth-control but i'm still using a condom most of the time.......
is this wrong???????
2007-11-20 18:33:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on who is defining wrong. I personally wouldn't recommend it and I say that from personal experience.
2007-11-20 18:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by it's me 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex is fun, but it is wrong outside of marriage. Most people will tell you to use a condom, but take this into consideration. Condoms when used correctly only prevent pregnancy 25% of the time. The average std is about 100 times smaller then the pores in a condom. To give you perspective, stopping a STD from going through a condom is like trying to stop a sand blaster using a chicken wire fence.
2007-11-20 19:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by James S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who you ask...
There are many reasons why people would feel it is wrong. A lot of people think it is wrong for religous reasons. Others believe it is wrong because they feel sex is something that should be taken seriously, only with someone you truly care about and have known for a long time, Someone can see yourself being with for a long time. There's also always a chance she can get pregnant (even with birth control and condoms) and getting pregnant at that age isn't good for a girl that young.
Personally, I don't think it's wrong if you truly love her and are not just using her for the sex. It's both of your decisions, nobody elses.
2007-11-20 18:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you're too young, but thankfully you and your girlfriend are smart enough to be using two kinds of protection. While I don't think you should be doing it, at least you're being responsible about it. Keep using a condom though, the last thing you need at your age is to get her pregnant. And yes, even if she's on birth control, it can still happen. So wrap it up!
2007-11-20 18:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is what wrong? Having sex wrong? Or having sex at 15? If you doubt yourself then its probably wrong. Using a condom "most of the time", yes very wrong. Use a condom every time! You don't know where that girls been or where she's going. Pretty soon you might start to feel sick then your thingy might fall off. Use a condom child!
2007-11-20 18:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Pat0785 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes & No...
Yes, because in the bible it say wait till marriage. Also she can get pregnant anytime even if she is on birth control and you use condoms things do happen.
No, because your young and you want to test the waters and eventually you will get tired oneday and notice that your not going to want to have sex as often as you are now because you just started.
2007-11-20 18:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of your ages are not legal.
If nothing happen to the girl, then you will be safe.
If something happen, the whole world will know.
Then you will be in deep trouble.
So many times a day is very tiring. Try to reduce a few unless you cannot resist from your gf.
You are still yound thats why you are so strong in this.
2007-11-20 18:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard question to answer as an adult. I should say no, but I was having sex at your age, as was most men all through out history. In some places in time you would really be getting off to a late start. Just be careful and play it safe.
2007-11-20 18:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by crknapp79 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then you feel that you are doing something wrong. I think they call it "guilt." Slow down and think about what you are doing, no birth control method is a 100% safe. She can get pregnant. You two are way too young to have a child. You need to follow your conscience, think about what you two are doing and that feeling of guilt will go away.
2007-11-20 18:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nettajay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong. You are only fifteen years old, which is a very young age at which to have sex. Sex should only be kept in marriage. I know it must feel good, but try and control yourself.
2007-11-20 18:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Supermanflyaway! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using contraception is the right thing to do if you are having sex & don't plan on having children however I have to say that I am always worried when young people are engaging in very emotional activity when they are not fully emotial\nally matured.
If you are comfortable with the situation & are careful & making sure she is comfortable with the situation then I guess it's OK.....
2007-11-20 18:37:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋