Why do girls?

Question

chase after badass guys, even when they know it won't work? why don't they go for the nice guys...? i never understood this concept...

(and yes i am a guy on my girl friends account)

Answer 1

Urology is the branch of medicine that focuses on the urinary tracts of males and females, and on the reproductive system of males. Medical professionals specializing in the field of urology are called urologists and are trained to diagnose, treat, and manage patients with urological disorders. The organs covered by urology include the kidneys, ureters, urinary bladder, urethra, and the male reproductive organs (testes, epididymis, vas deferens, seminal vesicles, prostate and penis).

In men, the urinary system overlaps with the reproductive system, and in women the urinary tract opens into the vulva. In both sexes, the urinary and reproductive tracts are close together, and disorders of one often affect the other. Urology combines management of medical (i.e., non-surgical) problems such as urinary infections, and surgical problems such as the correction of congenital abnormalities and the surgical management of cancers. Such abnormalities within the genital region are called genitourinary disorders.

Urology is closely related to, and in some cases overlaps with, the medical fields of nephrology, andrology, gynecology, proctology and oncology.



lolz just ta let cha know!!!


PS not all girls do that =)

Answer 2

Good question. I don't know why. The solution is to pretend to be a little badass yourself. I know it's a con, but to get the job done you gotta give the punters what they want. Isn't that kind of dumb chasing badass guys ? The excuse is they are more exiting but I would have thought a few months of same same badassness would get pretty tedious and boring. Ah well, back to bed with my hot cocoa !!

Answer 3

read the book "why men love bitches". i am sure you will learn about the other way around. there are "nice girls" out there too that feel the same way.

basically girls AND guys like the thrill of the chase. it keeps the spice alive in the relationship. its like a challenge- the carrot at the end of the race. if something it plainly given to you, it's not as exciting as winning it, right? many girls have a naive misconception that nice guys are naturally uncool, un-charming, dorky and anything else u can relate with that stereotype. badass guys are usually more 'appealing' yet when it comes down to relationships, aren't the real thing that women want.

all girls want a nice guy in the end. all guys want a nice girl in the end. but for the thrill of the chase...they chase after what catches their eye. suaveness and sex appeal can do a lot to deceive!

but if you do get a chance to read that book, you will surely be able to relate to it. i bought it for myself because i am a "nice girl"...and was struggling being taken for granted having sacrificing everything in my relationship. but my bf somehow got a hold of my book and got completely hooked on to it. he told me how amazing and funny it was how much he can relate to it himself. it has a lot of analogies and real life situations i'm sure you can relate to also to some extent.

my two cents....hope it helped!

Answer 4

Tigerrose is right. Guys put up a good 'front' to get a girl. They act all nice, but when they get the girl their true colors show.
THe guys buddies don't know he is acting nice to the girl. The buddies and everyone else wonders why the girl likes the bad boy, when in fact he is not being bad to her, so she doesn't know he IS bad until later.

Then, it's hard to let him go.

I'm not sure why they dont' go for nice guys as you are talking about, this is the only kind I go for.

Answer 5

I don't know why some girls do that. I don't, I used to. I guess I was just attracted to that type of guy. But since then I've learned there is no point and I'm much happier when I'm wiht a nice guy.

Answer 6

i know how u would feel it coz i notice this too. they seems to b blinded by the present interest like fashion , macho, or sumthing they like but not useful. so they go after the badass not considering the consequences

Answer 7

i think you grow out of this, i used to always go for the bad boys its kinda a thrill of the hunt sorta thing.
but now i dont just want flings i want a relationship so i go for nicer guys. my boyfriend is a really shy sweet guy.

they have to be fun though, i guess thats one of the main reason chicks go for the bad boys its fun and exiting ups and downs... etc etc.

but man, theres plenty of girls out there who love nice guys!
you'll find one =)

Answer 8

because when you first meet someone , you are not thinking about a long relationship....you just want to pass time happily with someone....and jerks usually are more fun to spend the time ....just for a short time i mean....but in serious thought ,off course girls preffer a good guy.....well i think it would be perfect if a good guy learn to be a little naughty ...just a little ....for spice

Answer 9

i think not all girls do that. but may be for money or another thing she is hanging on that guy. found out the reason why she is doing that . then u will realize the cause.

Answer 10

girls thrive off the idea of a "challenge" -- who doesn't love a little adventure?

the good guys (unfortunately) slip too easily into the friend zone...