I have been with the same guy for about three years already! No engagement yet either! I believed in what he told me when he said I love you! I was weary about it at first but I was soon convinced that he did love me! He did things that showed he loved me. But then there were times like now where I feel that he doesn't care about our relationship? I'm fighting with him because he didn't send me the usual messages before bed! He still doesn't respond, I now have decided to stop bugging him about it! It hurts though because I thought he would care enough but he seems like he does not! I guess he is not that into me and that's what I am afraid of! I realized that I should let him show it without me nagging and see if he really means it when he says he loves me! I'm afraid that I may learn a truth that will hurt me! (I'm so scared and sad)
2007-11-20 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by I'm going crayyyyzeee! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth can hurt, but the truth shall set you free. If he continues to show that he seems like he doesn't care then move on and let go. Life is to short and this may just be a learining experience, there is plenty of fish in the sea. Becasue if he really loves you and wants to be with you he would show you and do anything to keep you with him. So you be the judge don't pressure him to be with you, see if he show you he cares on his own.
2007-11-20 18:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know its a part of your relationship, no relationship is perfect after all you've been through for 3 years means you have lots of fun and known each other well so i guess u both need a little suspense so you will feel same like the first time don't count the years count the memories and happy moments you spend each other sometimes you both need each other a little gap to feel and to know if you really are meant to be just be calm and make yourself have a new look, new ideas and new style so he will not see same routine on you make out your best to be smarter than you are before so you will not be left behind with others i mean make extra effort for yourself don't depend on him all the time if he will not make messages then you make try to convince him that no matter what your still there for him coz you love him right?
2007-11-20 18:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a minute. and just because u guys are fighting doesn't mean he doesn't love u. no relationship is perfect! just think, maybe his phone or comp went dead. just be patient! u might be working urself up for no reason. so, send him one last message and tell him ur worried because he didn't message u, and that u r going to bed. now when u wake up u should have those messages to wake up to.
2007-11-20 18:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by anjhib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off a bit. Act just a bit coy, and see if he makes a move to pull you back in.
2007-11-20 18:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you two have been dating for 3 years he probably loves you. lol. i couldn't stay with a girl for three years if i didn't love her......but arguing about text messages....kinda dumb...let it go. everything will be alright
2007-11-20 18:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋