Me and my boyfriend are very close and we talk all the time on aim or through text messages and sinse we live an hour apart we see eachother only at least once a week. He acts like he really likes me and he always says so, but he NEVER calls me and he is ALWAYS out with friends so we cant talk all that much. We are very open with eachother ad we tell eachother everything. We have only been going out for a month but i REALLY like him ALOT and he says he feels the same way. Is he just too shy to call me or is it something else?
2007-11-20 16:35:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your relationship is obviously quite new, so I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. Generally speaking if a guy spills his guts to you on a regular basis it means he trusts you and if he is that open with you he probably really does love you. I think the main reason why he doesn't call you is because of what you said. He's out with his friends all the time so he quite frankly doesn't have any time to call and talk with you. With me being a guy myself I can honestly tell you that guys aren't exactly big on talking on the phone, but at the same time even though I don't talk with my girlfriend much over the phone, I do try to talk her at least once every few days if we haven't been together for a while because I love her and I know she appreciates that.
I would give it time but I would also open up to him when you guys talk again and tell him how you feel. If he truely loves you he will take time out of his schedule to call you and talk to you when you two haven't spoken for a few days. If he doesn't agree to do that for you then I would have to assume that he may not love you the way he says he does, but only he can tell you that for sure. Good luck.
2007-11-20 16:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are always better when they are new. The newness has worn off. You have only been with him for a month. You are either in very strong like or lust with this person. I don't think you have been together long enough to be in love.
2007-11-21 00:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by tikababy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry a lot. The relationship is very new. You may feel more convinced if you lived closer together or got to see each other more. As for right now, you'll just have to take him at his word.
2007-11-21 00:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dustelightful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't really love you, and neither do you. It's only been a month and you sound way too young to know what love is.
2007-11-21 00:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real or not real in a R/S. Use your heart to feel and time can tell everything.
2007-11-21 00:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt think he really likes you by his act i dnt wanna end my answers as a judgement.. ohh well soon i knw youl find out what im saying.. Gooduck
2007-11-21 00:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow girl! you need to get your self a real b/f not someone who is obvioulsly not that into you! dont come to him let him come to you and if he doesnt then leave him be cuz he is not worth it and you are! trust me
2007-11-21 00:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by none 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him...he's the only one who can tell you.
2007-11-21 00:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by lafemelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋