I love sex and have a strong sex drive but when my boyfriend is always groping at me it makes me feel the pressure to have sex which turns me off. He is offended when I ask him to back off a bit.
What should I do?
2007-11-20 16:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys are getting it wrong! hes the best lover ive ever had! Im very satisfied its just that sometimes he opicks the wrong moments to initiate and keeps trying when im not into it at the moment which then turns me off
2007-11-20 16:56:08 · update #1
talk i guess
2007-11-20 16:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by vlad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what he get offended I just saying that its your body and your decision when you're ready. I have a strong sex drive too, I always get turn off when a guy treats me like some guy. Sorry that just the way it is. Stop using me like some tool. Acknowledge me first give some conversation some flirtation some romance please or just I react like a machine or worst I roll on to someone else.
2007-11-20 17:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by treatsinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just not a very good lover.
There's a lot more to good sex than just coping a feel.
Maybe get some partner books like the kama sutra of something where you both read about & try new things and discover them together.
2007-11-20 16:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sexual incompatibility causes this. It is the way one person initiates it that may turn off the other. Slowing down is a way to work around it, but be aware that there may be deeper incompatibility.
2007-11-20 17:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's offended by it...he's being insensitive by not listening to what you want so you can do that right back by saying back off and really meaning it.
2007-11-20 16:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by R.I.P. Princess {7/31/08} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him.... he has to learn to make your satisfaction a priority.
If he is smart he will see that you get a lot more out of it pleasuring your partner than you do just looking after yourself.
You, in turn have to do the same for him....
good luck!
2007-11-20 16:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple.... do what you want to him first. Then let him finish you because when you think about it, your about ready to come anyway. and theres no way to back out of that feeling when your close. Give it a try, and be sure to thank me later :)
2007-11-20 16:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by midnight3_love4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should initiate even before he does and this way you dont get turned off. have fun :)
2007-11-20 16:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by pralisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over and solve the problem or dump him.
2007-11-20 16:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is time for that
talk to him about it
2007-11-20 16:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off... Let it run smoothly. ;)
2007-11-20 16:51:33 · answer #11 · answered by Chizzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋