Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

This has been going on a looong time; my friends do not like my boyfriend, and he's tried for a looong time to show them hes a good guy but they wont have it. This past saturday i was hanging out with my guy, and another guy friend at my guys house. My guy friend has a crush on my other girlfriend so he invited her to my guys house. little knowing that my other girlfriend, the one that doesnt get along so well with my guy is with her. now, they talk crap on my guy and for them to just come in his house, say nothing to him, and act like everything is cool was wrong in my eyes. he asked them to leave and i dont blame him. hes tried hard in the past to try to make friends with them. hes even asked them what problem they have with him but its like they dont give a straight answer. hes now saying hes completely done with them. im tired of always being in the middle of this crap. were all adults and i dont see why i have to go out of my way to assure that everyones happy when they

2007-11-20 03:26:34 · 2 answers · asked by million$? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Xhcolove10 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfrined for like 5 years on and off and i have cheated on him like a bunch of times i already lost count but the one thing i want to know is if i can stop ...i try to but its hard you know i get tired of him and sometimes i dont find him attractive and i just wish he was different

2007-11-20 03:23:10 · 22 answers · asked by sexy_1rma 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:23:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of any books on why some people don't get married?

2007-11-20 03:22:09 · 39 answers · asked by nyusilver 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every other time my boyfriend and I go to the bar, he gets too drunk, and something really bad happens.

So when we go to the bar, I dread something bad happening, and if I do finally losen up and don't 'babysit' him all night, he gets too drunk and does irrepairable damage to our relationship.

We agreed that the only way to guarentee that he won't get so drunk that he does something stupid, is to not drink at all.

Well, he refuses to give up drinking, unless I come up with something "fun" to do on the weekends. He argues that all we do is work every day, and he wants to enjoy at least one night a week.

He doesn't enjoy bowling, or dining out, or rollerskating, and going to the movies is the same to him as renting a movie and staying at home. He doesn't want to stay at home, no matter what we do at home. Of course all of his friends drink on the weekends, which makes my task that much harder.

It's too cold to go swimming or fishing.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-20 03:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by Maxine 3 in Singles & Dating

We haven't had any alone time except for in bed,since she's been living with us so when she asked if she could go to a pizza party at one of her guy friend's house and then spend the night with bet friend I told her yes. She's 14 and she's a pest and honestly I just wanted to get rid of her for the night, since she's never nice to be unless she wants something. Anyway when he came home last night I had a romantic candlelit dinner prepared for us and he asked about her and I told him she was out for the night and I gave her persmission then he got pissed and went to get her and hasn't talked to me since! What is his problem?

2007-11-20 03:18:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was fixing to get dark & I was fishing alone off of the pier by my house. I sneezed extremely loud. I heard a women's voice say, "God Bless you." As I looked towards the direction I thought the voice came from, I saw a women in the water. She quickly went in the water. I saw a huge fish tail as she went under. Can anyone out there help me catch her?? I don't want her getting hurt or getting caught in any tuna nets.

2007-11-20 03:17:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you look 4 in a girl
specifically what turns u on
guy thnk i'm pretty n all but they don't want to be with me?
what do i do

2007-11-20 03:16:27 · 25 answers · asked by Kt Fay 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i like and hes very shy when talking to girls that he likes (he said so).. besides his (gal) friends.. anyway, i always start the converstion whenevr we are both Online.. for 8 consecutive days.. we chatted.. i always say hi first.. but the good thing is, he always reply (fast).. eventhough his doing something.. and this day (9th day) i said hi to him first as usual.. and waited for him to start a converstion.. but he never did..

does this mean he doesnt like me?.. can he overcome his shyness?.. or no?.. would he say hi to me someday?.. or would that be really hard for him?

2007-11-20 03:15:44 · 4 answers · asked by mile_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

3 sisters and we've always been really close growing up.But as we grew older and became adults, we are distant now.My younger sister and her boyfriend stole from me and the entire family knew about it.Well the entire family became real angry with me because I pressed charges on my sister.Well my other sister took her side and was angry with me as well.None of us have talked since that happen.That was a yr ago.The other sister got married,not the theif but the other one and I wasn't invited.She even had my sister to stand in her wedding and the thief of a boyfriend 2.I have always help them with everything,I gave then a place to live when they did not have anywhere else to go.I gave them money and with no questions ask either.Well the other day,my sister invited me 2 her house 4 Thanksgiving.Not the thief,but the other one.now keep in mind that the 2 of them hasn't spoke 2 me in a yr.now they keep calling and wanting to know if I am going 2 b there b-cuz they really would like me ther

2007-11-20 03:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by loretta l 3 in Family

To think of someone every minute of the day? Not like n a creepy starkish way, But like a (the love of your life has been in Iraq since June) Kinda way...???

2007-11-20 03:12:25 · 1 answers · asked by Special K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:12:20 · 7 answers · asked by Draper 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-20 03:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:10:54 · 24 answers · asked by Tristan Robert Due March 20 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my boyfriend and i have been together for... 5 weeks... and my parents still dont know... and the reason they dont know is cuz he is not of the same faith as i am.. (i am 21) and i KNOW my parents will FLIP out... when and how should i tell them!? i dont want to go thru all that if i dont even know if we will end up together, im thinking about waiting til they move back to california probably next summer/fall.. should i wait til im out of the house? im so scared! i need help!!!

2007-11-20 03:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I go to clubs regularly and it started off as a joke, but has turned into something regular. i grind other guys and end up making out with them, while he is watching. he does not seem to have a problem and we end up having great sex afterwards. This weekend, I ended up doing a lot more where me and a guy went in a corner and did a lot more than i usually do, except for penetration. I expected my husband to get mad, but he said as long as there is no penetration, he does not mind. We ended up having the best sex of our lives after that. We have been to swinger clubs, but did not really like it. But this is something that excites us both. Is this wrong?

2007-11-20 03:10:26 · 52 answers · asked by Rads 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friend were driving to a club...she was driving and were i live theres this things called fast track on the freeway. you have to buy a membership for it, if you go on it and your not a memeber you will get a ticket..well we are driving on the freeway and she wasnt paying attention and we got stuck on the fast track..once your on it you cant get off so we had to use it and now a couple of months later she got the ticket...so should i have to help pay it? or should she since she was driving and not paying attention..i just quite my job and cant afford that much so i dont think its fair to have me pay for her mistake but i dont want to loose a friendship over not helping her...advice?

2007-11-20 03:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2 in Friends

What do you believe it takes to be a good friend? What does friendship mean to you? Are you what you think a good friend should be?

2007-11-20 03:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by mentalchallenge 3 in Friends

If your sacrafice ment your spouce could live until they were 85 – and would died of natural causes?

If not, why?

2007-11-20 03:06:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtdiuQbyEkZ1b55RFjKYMKPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071119171327AApJLDQ

I love my friend to bits but I dont know if she deserves that title.

2007-11-20 03:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-20 03:04:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been known to steal from peoples houses so I feel really uncofortable with her being in my house. I also have 3 young children so I have enough on my hands. She comes for about 3 hours every day so it is getting a bit much and she always come when my husband is at work. Me and my husband have been trying to think of a nice way to tell her to stop coming round. Can anyone please help me!! Thank you x

2007-11-20 03:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Katrina E 2 in Friends

ok here it goes . . . my best guy friend in the whole word told me he liked me and asked me out over IM. . . i told him that i didnt want to hurt my best friend (girl)'s feeling because they went out previously, but she has another bf now

ive liked his brother for a while and he recently admited he liked me 2. . . i told my best guy friend that i did like him coz hes realy sensitive and i didnt want to hurt him i also told him lest see what happens this week anyway. .. he kissed me this afternoon and my best friend (girl) saw and even though she said its fine i still feel like i cheated on his brother and hurt my friend (girl) . . . i wana tell him we have to end this but i dont know how. . .any advice pls

also can i tell this to him over IM considering he asked me out over IM?

thanx

2007-11-20 02:59:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend's daughter is getting married. I do not really know her daughter or her fiance. I have known this friend for several years but she gets on my nerves somewhat and goes to a church that I don't attend anymore. This is awkward. What should I do without causing problems? Plus this wedding the day before new years eve.

2007-11-20 02:57:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been in love with this girl for more than 3 years now. Before that, we were very close friends for a year. The thing that made me realize I am in love with her was when I got extremely jealous of her falling for another guy (whom she eventually got together with).

I have been avoiding her ever since, as everything got out of hand. I watched painfully from afar, as she went around with other guys. I just bottled everything up and cried my heart to sleep at night.

The thing is, I finally found the guts to tell her I love her about 1.5 years ago, and she made it clear to me that I am just a close friend to her all this while.

Now, I found out about a month ago that she's single, and we started talking again. But she said that she's still very much in love with her ex, and wants to be back with him.

1. Should I continue hoping ?
2. I'm 22. For people who fall in love at this age, is there a fair chance it'll last forever? How do I know if she's the right one?

2007-11-20 02:57:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many holes does a girl have?

2007-11-20 02:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In terms of spirituality?

2007-11-20 02:50:54 · 14 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm thankful for my marriage staying strong.

My business doing well.

The health of my children (we had a scare with my youngest earlier this year).

The end of my mother's suffering (she was very sick and in a lot of pain for a long time- she was able to go to Heaven in May- terribly sad, but at the same time a blessing)

2007-11-20 02:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i do NOT get along with my grandmother, i know she will try to get into the hospital when i have my baby in a couple days. how do i write a letter saying that she cant come into my room to see me or my family??

2007-11-20 02:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by mrepsher1@verizon.net 1 in Family