I have been in love with this girl for more than 3 years now. Before that, we were very close friends for a year. The thing that made me realize I am in love with her was when I got extremely jealous of her falling for another guy (whom she eventually got together with).
I have been avoiding her ever since, as everything got out of hand. I watched painfully from afar, as she went around with other guys. I just bottled everything up and cried my heart to sleep at night.
The thing is, I finally found the guts to tell her I love her about 1.5 years ago, and she made it clear to me that I am just a close friend to her all this while.
Now, I found out about a month ago that she's single, and we started talking again. But she said that she's still very much in love with her ex, and wants to be back with him.
1. Should I continue hoping ?
2. I'm 22. For people who fall in love at this age, is there a fair chance it'll last forever? How do I know if she's the right one?
2007-11-20 02:57:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. no it is a waste of time, she's not interested.
2. yes, it's possible to meet someone at 22 and have that love last for life. You already know she's not the one because she's not interested in you.
side note: if while being her friend it is too painful to watch while she dates other men, then can't be her friend right now. You will need time and space between you so you can allow yourself to get over her and find someone who will love you the way you deserve and who you love back.
Good Luck!
2007-11-20 03:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing how she loves her EX still . dont jump to any relationship hoping until you know for sure that shes completely over him.. girls i think are really valnurable after breakups so tri being a close friend and talking to her about things no-related to any kinda relationships. If you tri being a close friend her feelings for her ex could be focused on you, and thats how a relationship could start. im sure if its meant to be it will happen, just stop tring so hard and let things happend as they come.
2007-11-20 03:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by sixxss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know but my advice would be for you to move on. You do not want to be known as the wierc guy who would not let go! So that is what you must do let go! Hope it works out hun xx
2007-11-20 03:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never know if a woman is the right one they change periods and all the game if you can handle the moods eratic behaviour then you there.but it dont sound like you have a chance with this one your firmly in the friend zone.
2007-11-20 03:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by dustbin31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION, I HAVE LEARNED THAT IF SOMEONE SEES YOU AS ONLY A GOOD FRIEND THAN THAT REALLY IS ALL THERE IS. yOU NEED TO CARE FOR YOURSELF, AND LOVE YOURSELF MORE TO END YOUR SUFFERING! YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE LINGERING IN THE SHADOWS OF SOMEONE ELSE. tHERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO ARE GREAT LOVING PEOPLE LOOK OUT SIDE YOUR BOX. IF ANYTHING IS TO BE WITH THIS GIRL IT WILL, BUT DONT CAUSE YOURSELF ANYMORE SUFFERING!!!! YOU DESERVE TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN! I SUGGEST YOU MOVE ON AND REMAIN FRIENDS WITH HER! UNLESS IT IS TOO PAINFUL FOR YOU TO BE AROUND HER, CARE FOR YOURSELF,AND THE PERFECT LOVE WILL FIND YOU.
2007-11-20 03:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, hang in there, i'd want a guy 2 wait... thats sooo sweeet
2007-11-20 03:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kt Fay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋