Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

who wears the trousers in your relationship?
ladies do you like to be doominated, ha ha that was meant to be dominated, either or!
and gentle men of course you can answer too!!

2007-11-20 04:27:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am bisexual and have a girlfriend. our relationship is pretty good except for this one problem- all of her other friends are welcome to stay in her house. one of her friends is even staying over for thanksgiving, meeting all her nieces and nephews and such. but i am not welcome to even go to her house. this makes me intensely jealous bc i should be the one sharing her life with her, seeing her with her family, etc. my gf doesn't even understand why this is bothering me so much. do you think i have a right to feel that i do? should my gf be more understanding?

2007-11-20 04:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 04:24:18 · 3 answers · asked by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 in Weddings

When i went into labor i ask for the epidural when i was 4cm but the anethesiologist refuse to give me the epidural because my husbands said no that he did not want me to get the epidural. Me and my husband never plan a natural delivery i was upset for the way he was acting and because i was denied the epidural because of him.

2007-11-20 04:21:26 · 36 answers · asked by kittie_galore2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up a couple months ago and I only got back together with him because then he said that after 5 years he is willing to get married and have children. He never gave me a ring and about a month after we got back together then we fought because he still hadnt gotten me the ring and I felt like he was just saying that. And he said what do you need it right away right now then lets go. And he yelled that so I didnt want it then. We have plans to go to Las Vegas and get married in Feburary or March after we both get our taxes back, but what do I do unitl then? Just say nothing about it, or about him not getting the ring? Do I stop making the plans to go if I dont even have the ring saying that its for sure? I dont want to hound him for it I really do just want him to purpose because he really is in love and wants me as his wife and not because I keep yelling about it. So should I just shut-up and wait even though I keep getting mad and hurt about it?

2007-11-20 04:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 04:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by SexyB 1 in Family

me and my boyfriend of a year get into alot of arguements...most of them are because i think he doesnt show me e loves me.. yet he says he does... ive asked him to show me anytime we argue and he says he'll try harder, And what i mean by showing it is to do "cute" things or take me out... or atleast doing something i dont have to ask him to do.. how do i get him to understand what i mean???

2007-11-20 04:14:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just a fun Top 10 for all you Weddings section fans..

10. No you cant fire out your bridesmaids just because they didnt throw you a shower and are not going crazy over your wedding.
9. Whatever it takes to get a beautiful ring without going into debt.
8. Thats tacky.
7. If you cant afford alcohol, then dont serve any.
6. I love your dress!!!
5. You wear it under your engagement ring, closest to your heart.
4. No you cant ask for money instead of gifts.. only silently hope.
3. It doesnt have to be matchy-matchy.
2. No its never appropriate to ask guests to open their wallets while attending your party.

What do you think 1. should be?

2007-11-20 04:14:06 · 19 answers · asked by fizzy stuff 7 in Weddings

Please only saved or married people answer.

2007-11-20 04:13:35 · 35 answers · asked by Tamirah f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend got in to a agrument and he hit me hard that i fell onto the floor i want to leave him but im scared he told me not to tell no one and if i did i would regrat it i need help!

2007-11-20 04:07:52 · 13 answers · asked by auggie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were justing lying on his bed talking, and i asked him whats his fantasy. and he said it doesn't matter because it's not like it's going to happen any time soon. because i'm a virgin and we haven't gone pass anything but foreplay. so i straddle him and push him down on the bed and told him maybe he might get lucky one of these days, and it would be good to know. and he told me that he would want for me to be his slave, and for me get down on my hands and knees and crawl to him on my hands and knees, and beg him for it.
(What the hell?) i s what i was thinking, i almost laughed a little.
but he was serious because he was gripping my waist tight and i could feel that he was turned on.
and he told me that he wants to tie me up and listen to me cry and moan, while he pleases me. and i was thinking thats kind of scary and weird and how could i not know he was into this sort of thing after a year and a half.

what do you think?

2007-11-20 04:06:01 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Most girls are always playing mind games. So when a guy plays mind games with a girl and gives her a little bit of her own medicince, why does she get mad? Isn't that equal play?

2007-11-20 04:02:29 · 35 answers · asked by Nick Bollea 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the one thing you can't stand that people do?

2007-11-20 04:00:44 · 31 answers · asked by alexis v 2 in Friends

2007-11-20 03:54:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with this guy and we tried to be just friends but we ended up likeing eachother again so how will i get him to go out with me like really soon like in four day's? ? ?

2007-11-20 03:52:45 · 25 answers · asked by Shortie 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy and i thought he is gonna be my future Mr.Right and i stood with him on everything and at last i came to find out he lied to me on many things and go out with his ex-fiancee what to do?still he wants me to continue with him when i ask why you did this to me..the answer is i don't understand.

2007-11-20 03:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by pretty_souma 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for approx 4 months now and i think he mite be the one! am i going too fast? wat do i do? do i tell him that i love him this much?

2007-11-20 03:42:27 · 5 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4 months and she called me recently and told me that she misses me and that we had a special relationship. She has been seeing someone else and she has told me several times that he isnt what she wants, they dont have the same connection we have, etc., but she never comes back to me. I think she is just stringing me along, so I told her the last time we talked that I thought she was just messing with me and that I didn't think that she should call me again EVER. When I told her that she hung up on me and I havent heard from her in about a week. I DO love her, but I dont want to be second best or my head played with. I want to be with her because I love her like I no one else. I just dont know what to do. We do have a special relationship but I cant move on if she keeps trying to contact me and tell me how much she misses me, etc. What should I do? Should I ever consider being with her again? If she calls again, should I answer or ignore her?

2007-11-20 03:40:58 · 9 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with her for over a year, but since I've moved away for college, she has taken on a lot of responsibilities (job, a couple sports, babysitting, paper route). However, while I'm gone away during the week, I only have a very short time during the day when I can talk to her because she is always busy. We don't talk much at all during the week. This bothers me, and it bothers me that it doesn't bother her.
She is also busy a lot on weekends, and is often sick, so even when I'm with her I usually have to suck it up. I'm also discouraged by the lack of spontaneity (ie; she never texts me just to say something cute. She says she loves me before the end of a phone convo, but that's it). I've let her know I am not currently happy, but I'm sticking it out because I am hoping it will eventually get better, in the long run.

Am I being whiney? I need words of encouragement.

By the way, there is NOT a third person involved, so there is no need to suggest it. Trust is not the issue

2007-11-20 03:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to make things better without 'talking about it', even though I am sometimes hurt by his distance/distraction.

It's been rough lately - we nearly split up a little while ago - but we have agreed to work on it.

He doesn't want things to get 'heavy' - and i don't disagree that talking about things can make things worse, sometimes. He has been fed up with 'relationship' discussions - which he tends to head off at the pass by (falsely!) anticipating criticisms, assuming the worst; he'll get snippy and annoyed and feel I'm castigating him when I just want to be understood. He doesn't want to hear about what I'm actually upset about - I don't think I've ever gotten that far, despite my efforts!

So ok, I'm willing to do 'fun' things - we do need more good times. Except we often slip into snapping at each other, or get defensive...

Any advice on how to approach this, with the aim of mending the relationship?

2007-11-20 03:40:26 · 1 answers · asked by lane 4 in Singles & Dating

my step daugher is 9 and has been coming to my house for quite a while but before there was not a court order and the mother and the kid decided when it was ok to come. and her mother also tried pushing my husband out of the picture. now neither of us think that it is appropriate for her to have a cell phone her mother got it for her her first court ordered weekend to stay. she has fun with us but can not show that to her mom. I have been involved for 8 years now. so it is not that I am taking her daddy or anything. but her mother tells her to defy our rules. we have a phone and allow her to use it to call her mom any time she wants we also allow her mother to call her. we just do not think that it is appropriate for her to have it all the time flipping it around. when she is here she should not be on the phone with the other family we should be spending time and doing our family things. is it appropriate for her to have this or does mommy need back off. we have other kids and theydont

2007-11-20 03:39:42 · 33 answers · asked by Amie 2 in Family

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year now and she's ALREADY talking about getting married.

I'm only 20 and in college...I'm just not looking that far ahead in life right now

Seriously, what is with girls and marriage? Why would anyone want to voluntarily sentence themselves to a lifetime of hell is beyond me.

2007-11-20 03:38:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1 : a quality or feeling of strong or constant affection for and dedication to another
2 a : attraction based on sexual desire : the strong affection and tenderness felt by lovers b : a beloved person : DARLING
3 a : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion b : the object of attachment or devotion
4 : a score of zero in tennis
- in love : feeling love for and devotion toward someone
number 2 indictionary
1 : to hold dear : CHERISH
2 a : to feel a lover's passion, devotion, or tenderness for b : to touch or stroke lightly
3 : to like or desire actively : take pleasure in
4 : to grow well in

a romantic relationship or incident between lovers
a decorative knot sometimes used as an emblem of love
a sofa for two persons-a joke lol -because this describes love seat

2007-11-20 03:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by Whole 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend just got an apartment about like 2 months ago well a few weeks after we moved in some guy moved in right next to us... so i found out he had a my space so i went to look him up and just stopped by to say hi....well i ended up giving him my number and we would text or whatever.... later my boyfrind found out he read a texted he sent me and he went crazy??? i think he overreacted am i right or was he right???? me and the neighbor didnt do anything just talk thats it.

2007-11-20 03:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by sexy_1rma 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 03:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband and I are, well were together-its complicated. Anyway Everytime I look at him I die inside because on my in breathe I love him so much and by the time I am done I am so hurt all the same. Does this even make sense? Sorry I don't normally put my laundry out here but having a hard time today.

2007-11-20 03:32:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im kinda shy but hang round with quite a rowdy crowd n i hav a crush on a girl. Do i hav a chance?

2007-11-20 03:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy on and off for about 9 months now. A portion of that he was deployed to Iraq, while he was there I was faithful, sent care packages, letters, pictures, food, everything he asked for, went without sleep sometimes just to talk to him when he would call at 3 am. Now that he's home we've broken up 5 times, yet everytime he comes back he cries tells me he can't live without me and how stupid he is for letting me go. I don't know why he does this, the whole time we've been together we've never slept together because I'm afraid he'll leave again. He tells me he wants to raise my daughter as his own and get married and blah blah blah, then disappears for a month. He's had several people tell him not to be with me because I am a single mother, including his father...What the hell is going on with him? What can I do to get him to stay with me or stay gone for good? Please help!!!!

2007-11-20 03:30:54 · 33 answers · asked by RED 2 in Singles & Dating

OK this Thursday is Mine and My man's 1-year anniversary! We're going out on Friday and I really want to make it special for him. I'm just at a loss for ideas. Any help would be greatly appreciated...and I still have no idea what to get him for Christmas. I kinda wanna do something to turn him on, but I'm at a loss for that too. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-11-20 03:29:22 · 6 answers · asked by Punkd 2 in Singles & Dating