Most girls are always playing mind games. So when a guy plays mind games with a girl and gives her a little bit of her own medicince, why does she get mad? Isn't that equal play?
2007-11-20 04:02:29 · 35 answers · asked by Nick Bollea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dumb question
2007-11-20 04:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by mkb2000bkm 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I find that the best thing to do in this situation is to be a good friend. Always be there for her and listen to her problems even if it is about another guy. Relationships when your that young tend not to last long when you don't know the person that well. Relationships always work better when you start off as friends. If you really like her then you should wait as long as you feel is right. She probably isn't playing games shes just doesn't know that there is a great guy in front of her. So don't try to play mind games with her, just be her friend. Cause when she breaks up with said guy shes going to know what an awesome person you were being there whenever she needed you.
2016-05-24 08:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I am not even sure what mind games are, you hear it so much...is it just being a little mysterious, hard to pin down, or flirty???? If so it should an open playing field for both sexes.
If it means you are being deceptive or doing things that are hurtful, I don't think either girls or guys should do it. You should just be considerate and respect each other.
I guess sometimes it is just hard to figure out what the other person is feeling when you engage in game playing. I know the older you get the less you tolerate them.
2007-11-20 04:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know.. "do to others, as you'd want done to yourself" is one of the very-best ideas ever written... and it applies here. Why justify the drama of nonsense, back and forth -- when you can simply control what YOU do and say.
It's all pretty simple. Do right, by others.. and in the long run, you're the Better man for how you approach your own days/life. At some point, you have to give SOME thought to growing (up) and not wasting time with senseless mind games, from others and from you, outward. Right?
2007-11-20 04:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
equal play....will get you no where. you just have to be a good man. games on either side are just a waste of your time.
i dont think looking at this as a game of who can get over on who....will work for you well in the future.
in the end, you will more than likely lose out on a great woman.... because she will be attracted to you...and then before she ever gets the chance to chase you....will hear about how you just play games.
whether or not it is true...will not matter. word of mouth will destroy you before you ever have a chance to show her who you really are. perception... is reality
good luck tho
2007-11-20 04:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by pencilnbrush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, basically you just asked a very...question. People are selfish. If people are fair then we won't have all the problems we have. Let me ask you, if a girl slap you in the face and you slap her back do you think she would say "okay that's fair, i deserved that" She does deserve it but do you think she would think that way? Why do cheaters get mad when they find out they spouse is cheating as well. Should they not think it's just equal play?
2007-11-20 04:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, never assume all girls play mind games....some don't even have a moment to think, stretched wayy too thin..and way too many responsibilities. Some of us don't even have a chance but to watch the news on TV and that's it...no soap opera's or nighttime TV shows.
Some of us are Non-Stop....work, cook, clean, church.
2007-11-20 04:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think anyone likes mindgames if they are mature. I know I never played mindgames I was a straight shooter. The only thing I ever recall doing in my dating years was...
Tried to hide my most unattractive flaws tell me and my partner were comfortable enough and I felt I should share them with him.
We don't want to freak out a potential partner when we first are getting to know them.
We know after a while, when they are comfortable enough to know that we do where granny panties sometimes, we don't where makeup and cute outfits everyday, we are more emotional when it involves feelings, and we do like to pig out when we are by are self from time to time.
2007-11-20 04:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by luvmeeluvmenot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all reality no one should get mad about games...we all do it whether we realize we are or not. If you think about it, dating itself is all a game, its all about putting out the best impression of yourself that you possibly can to attract a mate... its what animals do, and we as mammals are animals.
However, if you're doing it to be vindictive, then no it's not fair play.
2007-11-20 04:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by smithsalbabe (PiercingsByJulie) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure its equal play but then they know that you've figured out whats going on.. MOST girls want the man to take the lead. they want to feel wanted and to be chased
2007-11-20 04:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Pepperpaige 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the girl. I guess if she played you then it's fair game. But you shouldn't play mind games with someone who is innocent.
2007-11-20 04:06:34 · answer #11 · answered by Claddagh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋