I met a guy and i thought he is gonna be my future Mr.Right and i stood with him on everything and at last i came to find out he lied to me on many things and go out with his ex-fiancee what to do?still he wants me to continue with him when i ask why you did this to me..the answer is i don't understand.
2007-11-20 03:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by pretty_souma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a jerk. It would be one thing if he was honest with you about a deep friendship/connection with his ex fiancee, but he was not. If he really thought he was not doing anything wrong, then he would not lie. The fact that he has lied ( multiple occasions ) is an indication of how little he respects you. He wants his metaphorical cake and to eat it too. And he has the nerve to ask to to stay by him on this too! You need to ask yourself whether or not he is capable of being honest and faithful for the rest of your lives together. If you cannot believe this is possible, then you need to be strong and leave. It would be a self preservation thing... I don't see how your relationship could ever be the same. You deserve the best of the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Do you think he has given you the best of him? And if you think he has, it's sad to think that his best would result in fracture of your heart and trust. Just by what little information you have provided, I don't think he is the One for you. Your One and True Love will find his way to you. Good luck.
2007-11-20 04:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl thats a BIG RED FLAG! please get out of this now and save yourself the hearache, i know from experience that if he's still in contact with his ex, it AINT over. my Mr. right had the same problem contacting his ex, this hurt me so bad, i really loved that man but i was not going to share the man i love with some ex *****, and honestly i dont think he was ready to let her go, and would still be playing us both right now if he could. realise your worth more than that, and if he lies about seeing her, he'll lie about anything, bottom line... you cant trust him move on. Remember Men only do what we women allow, dont be so weak girl.
2007-11-20 04:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 12:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by layden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they have children together? if not, what is there to understand? but even with children, he has no reason to be going out with her still, if he is engaged to you, honey the best thing you can do at this point is to either drop him like a hot rock, or what i would do, is call HER, and tell her that he is suspossed to be engaged to you, but you have recently learned that he is still seeing her, and ask her what is going on, as she may not know you are with him, since he is the one telling you that you do not understand, then you tell him that you are trying to understand, and since he cant give you a straight answer you went to the other source! good luck
2007-11-20 03:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by oh really 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you say he's going out with his ex-fiancee, do you mean he goes on dates with her? Spends the night with her? Sleeps with her?
My boyfriend still has contact with his ex-fiancee; it doesn't bother me. (I don't have contact with my ex-fiance, but since he cheated on me, I think he knows it's better that he not contact me.) It would bother me, however, if he lied to me about it -- not necessarily if he didn't tell me, but if he lied. There's a difference.
Think about how you feel about this, and talk to him. Don't accuse him of anything, but get all of the facts before you decide how to proceed.
2007-11-20 03:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOSER ALERT!
Get as far away as possible, life is tooo short.
2007-11-20 03:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after i dusted myself off after the a@@ beating i gave him...i would tell him it was over
2007-11-20 03:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by bailie28 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋