Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

i really want to ask this guy out im 13 hes 14 ive been trying to ask him out since august im thinking of asking him when our youth group goes ice skating but cant find the words to do it

2007-11-20 08:22:44 · 17 answers · asked by my imperfections make me perfect 2 in Singles & Dating

k theres this guy. he is probably the shyest guy i have ever met in my entire life. he is attractive, very smart and is amazing at sports. but he only talks to people that are his friends (so people think hes stuck up). when i first met him he would not talk to me first and just nod his head. then as he got to know me, he talked to me more.. and by the end of the day we were both crazy and laughing. he still barely talks to me (just hi hows it going). so it is impossible to read anything from him. how can i find out what hes thinking without asking him (his cousin asked him who he liked and he said nothing)

2007-11-20 08:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by T.G. <3 2 in Singles & Dating

my moms getting married and i dont want her to cause he is so weird he still like kermet the frog and he named his car kermie and hes so weird hes wearing a green tuxido to the wedding!what do i do the wedding is in feb. im desprate please help me

2007-11-20 08:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by sportchic 1 in Weddings

okay. i have this guy friend who is really cool and everything. i dont see him to much, but i talk to him almost everyday online. when he has a problem or something, he always opens up to me, like im the only friend he has. and that isnt a bad thing, but the first time i met him in person ( he is my friends friend so i knew he wasnt like, 43 years old!) it was too clod by the door so i just said hi and backed away from the door. he only saw me for like, 4 secconds and the next day online, he asked me if i liked what i saw when i saw him. i just said what did u think? and he was like come on u know what i mean. but he wouldnt really say anything like that to me. and another time, he asked me what i would rate him on a scale from 1-10. i tild him i didnt really know. and then later on in the conversation like 15 minuetes later, he said, "if i were to ask u out, and im not saying that i like you, would u say yes?"

2007-11-20 08:17:25 · 15 answers · asked by Mellllers 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me too. i want to ask him to go steady, but i'm not sure yet. he barely gives me the time of day, but we've slept together 4 times at parties. should i ask him out? My best friend says I should totally go for it, she was hookin gup with him at the same time as me, and she says he defs likes me better......

2007-11-20 08:15:13 · 16 answers · asked by Princess Ninja 7 in Singles & Dating

does everybody wants to have sex at ages 13-17??

or are promiscuous by that age!

whats wrong with you people

2007-11-20 08:13:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to a woman who is insanely jealous. I knew she was before I married her. if she sees me even speaking to someone, it's a problem.She puts on acts in front of others as if she is the kindest person in the world but at home it's a different story. I don't use my phone, don't go anywhere, don't hang out, all because I don't want any problems. I don't love her as a wife, and I told her that but it doesn't matter. I pay all the bills, cook, clean, but she tells everyone that feels she's being used. Got any advice on this one?

2007-11-20 08:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

like should i sit back and relax even though he's right there and i like him and i think he likes me but we're kinda both too scared to say anything, should i do something that won't scream i love you, but says i like u and dont want to ruin our good relationship. please help......

2007-11-20 08:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by lois 1 in Singles & Dating

There are soo many of us that have a chance to do stuff that we (by societys rules) shouldn't do. But sometimes you have the opportunity to do it and no one else will know. Like the soldier (male) in Iraq who is away fighting for freedom and of course loves his family but is sleeping with another soldier (female)while away. Or the Army wife who is sleeping with another man while her husband is away. If you play your cards right you will never get caught. And how would the wife EVER find out about that being as it's happening 3000 miles away?

So do u do things and say "o well he's not around"?

This is just a fun ? don't get all serious.

2007-11-20 08:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is my blood sis to but our mom doesnt know me and her got really horney what should we do? please answer back!

2007-11-20 08:01:16 · 20 answers · asked by Red 1 in Family

My wife, soon to be filing for divorce, opened a bank account in my name without my knowing about it. The only reason I found out is that they sent me a email informing that should be recieveing a pin number and id in the mail. I beleive she opened this account so she would get a cash reward for new accounts that she got to be opened via referal. But I do not like the fact that she was able to open a account and maybe even get lines of credit in my name. What legal recourse do I have this is making me uncomfortable especially since it appears she is going to file for divorce soon.

2007-11-20 07:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by QCCP 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is getting married in 2 weeks. I hosted her bridal shower this past weekend. She had 35 guests in attendance excluding the rest of the bridal party (5 girls plus myself)….Anyway, she contacted me today and asked when I would be sending out the thank you cards to the guests….It has always been my impression that that is up to the bride, not the hostess. I told my friend that I would not be sending out T/Y cards, that it was up to her. She became extremely mad, yelling that she’s not the one that invited everyone (yet she gave me the list of people to be invited) She said that if I’m not going to do my part as MOH, then I’m out…Is it the hostess reasonability to send out T/Y cards? All other showers I’ve ever hosted or been to the “honorary guest” is the one that does the Thank You’s. I fear that she will boot me out of the wedding party at the last minute. What should I do?

2007-11-20 07:56:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am going to have first time conversation with a girl on the phone today.

Can you recommend what are the things I should ask her so that I can impress her and keep the conversation going? As many as possible ideas pls

2007-11-20 07:55:34 · 18 answers · asked by Nat 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is going out wiv this boy i have liked him since year 7 and she has liked him for 3 weeks
please help ....x

2007-11-20 07:54:16 · 13 answers · asked by fayzyblazy 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant tell you exactly what this quest is, nor can i tell you what it entails, more along the lines, it is a expirement. an expirement to see how easily propaganda can be moved to and fro from on designated sight. dont you worry, this is absolutly nothing illegal. nor will anyone be harmed. i do wish i could say more, but this is all. if you ae interested in joining, simply reply, "LF".
then await further information.

2007-11-20 07:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 16 years old, 5'1-5'2, about 98-100 pounds. I'm no where near flat, but I'm constantly told, "Your legs are so skinny!" It's kind of annoying. I have a fast metabolism and it's hard to gain weight. Is this a bad insult? It hurts. :(

2007-11-20 07:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 07:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband comes from a big family and EVERY year since I've known him we ALWAYS have to go to his mother's house. He's one out of 7 kids, so you could just imagine the crowd in her little tiny house. I try and get out of it every year but it doesn't work and we end up fighting about it. We have two children and I wouldn't mind if he took the kids. Ok the real anger probably comes from him never agreeing to spend Christmas with my parents, my dad passed away not too long ago and so here I am not with NEVER being able to spend time with both of my parents. The last Christmas my dad was alive, I tried to compromise with him, I said let's split our time between both families, he refused. It was my dad's last Christmas on this earth (although none of us knew it), I had just became a new mom. I come from a small family and although we celebrated Christmas it was not based on gift giving, which is exactly what Christmas is like in his mother's house. I don't want to go this year.

2007-11-20 07:41:44 · 24 answers · asked by Yasmina 2 in Family

I just got back from a 3 year "vacation" courtesy of the state, an she sure looks a lot different that when I saw her last. Course, she never came to visit, so I was kinda suprised at the change. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I didn't wait 3 years to see what I'm gettin now.

2007-11-20 07:39:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just tried to talk to my husband again about me being an organ doner and he still wont budge i told him i was going to join tonight because ive had enough of not doing what is right for me and he said that if i do i can pack my bags tonight!!!! what do i do??? become a doner and loose my husband or keep my husband and dont do what i beleive is right for me?

2007-11-20 07:38:02 · 39 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone any good wedding songs i was set on more then words by extreme or truly madly deeply by savage garden but my fiancee not keen on them so any ideas no common ones please

2007-11-20 07:37:33 · 24 answers · asked by Ian B 2 in Weddings

...wife or husband by their touch or kiss?

2007-11-20 07:37:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guys answer too..would u rather a girl act really desperate or a girl that is playing hard to get? and why?..saying neither is not an option.

2007-11-20 07:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, what if you don't want people to know what you do for a living? like if you're not proud of what you do. How would you respond????

2007-11-20 07:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 07:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I hadn't talked to my ex for about a good month or so. I quit talking to her, took her off my myspace ect. . .just so I could get over her. She is the one who left me. Last week, I sent her an email saying "Hi, I just wanted to see how you and your little girl were doing." Cause that was really all I wanted to know. I still care alot for both of them. She responded back were doing fine, and asked how I was doing. I told her I was doing okay and that I missed spending time with her and her daughter, but I needed time with no communication with her so I could get over her. She responded back with "If you ever need to talk, let me know. And I mean that." I never responded back.

I still love this girl with all my heart, but I don't want to misinterpret anything she says. Is she just saying this to be nice? Or is it possible that I should pursue talking with her and maybe things could work out? As much as I'd like to be just friends, I can't look at her that way, so I hope that isnt

2007-11-20 07:33:06 · 26 answers · asked by Roland of Gilead 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you tediously analyze it so see if it meant anything special???
I'm the guy btw...and I really like this girl, but I'm one of those "intellectuals" and she is a friend. So I sent her this really good poem by Robert Frost just to ask what she thinks about it.
I'm just about 98% sure this girl likes me...

The poem was definitely NOT love poetry though. So I'm wondering...did I make a mistake by sending her poetry that had nothing to do with love??

2007-11-20 07:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so iv got this mate and a few moths ago he strangled me we got over it but he has threatened me a few times since
he has also told me he isnt afraid 2 kill someone. in the past few months we have had huge arguments and then been like best mates again. he also likes to mess with ppls heads and has addmitted this 2 me. he can b the nicest person u cud eva meet and then turn crazy.
he likes 2 manipulate ppl. i told him yestarday i wanted nothing 2 do with him and he wouldnt take it. he said id neva win aganst him
i just wana get rid and haave him outa my life
how do i do this? and has he got something mentaly wrong with him
thanks

2007-11-20 07:29:23 · 60 answers · asked by geordie 3 in Friends

2007-11-20 07:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so I met this girl that lives kinda near me on myspace, (lame I know) we've been talking and are supposed to meet soon. Has anyone out there had a serious relationship that started on the internet? What should I expect?

(she's 19, I'm 20 and we work/go to school in the same small town)

2007-11-20 07:28:50 · 1 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating