I just got back from a 3 year "vacation" courtesy of the state, an she sure looks a lot different that when I saw her last. Course, she never came to visit, so I was kinda suprised at the change. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I didn't wait 3 years to see what I'm gettin now.
2007-11-20 07:39:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She waited 3! years for you while you were locked up and you're complaining about her weight??? That is pathetic!LOSER!!!
2007-11-20 07:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Muschi 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Honestly I think all the people here telling you to dump her is really mean. If you really loved her you wouldnt care that she is fat or she is a little bigger. She was waiting for a long time to see you and your going to ruin the moment by saying she is fat? Well thats really mean. You should tell her wow you look different and maybe she will see the difference in why. I mean why would you want a skinny anorexic girl than a normal perfect one? she seems perfect to me.. Dont get a new girlfriend stay with her. You will only hurt her I dont think there is a way to tell her that she is fat and NOT hurt her feelings its just not a good thing. Be nice. And if you cant be nice and dont want what you see. Then she deserves better...
be nice.. =)
-Shay
ps. she waited for you
think about that =)
2007-11-20 07:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by metallicas_puppetmaster =] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your girlfriend is aware that she has piled on a few pounds so the last thing she needs is you to make her more self conscious of it i'm sure. If the only reason you are with her is for her looks then that really isn't a good relationship anyway to be honest with you. However if its really bothering you maybe suggest going on romantic walks together or going to the gym together. I think its important that you don't blatantly tell her shes looking 'kinda fat' and that you do something to help her.
2007-11-20 07:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the first 7 people, but is she really FAT? Or just pleasently plump? Coz people mistake. I mean, does everyone want skinny witches nowadays? For example, Hilary Duff. She wasn't fat before, she was normal but now she's a skeleton...or maybe ur girl is fatter than Hilary was...if she is that may not be healthy so kindly ask her to exercise with you and to eat better too. Hit one bird with two stones, you can get buff and she can lose wieght, You can't lose. But make sure not to let her do it alone. She may feel lonely and its much more fun to exercise with someone there. Hope i helped!^-^
2007-11-20 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't see past it than break up with her but under no circumstances should you tell her she is fat. I am sure she already knows and doesn't need anyone else to point it out. Personally I think you are lucky to have had someone wait for you for 3 years, fat or not. I know I wouldn't have.
2007-11-20 07:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are the most shallowest guy i have ever heard.... you WANT to tell your girlfriend that shes KINDA FAT!?!?!? you never ever ever ever say that to a girl but if you want her to slim down again maybe you should take her to the gym and work out with her but thats not very nice to say she isnt good looking.. do you like go and compare her to other girls or something...
SHE WAITED FOR YOU FOR 3 entire years.. dude.
Get over yourself and learn to look in the inside not the outside, you shallow shallow person!!!
2007-11-20 07:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Xoxo--qween_annienator--xoxo-- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
were you in jail??????? anyway 'holiday' or what, the point is, she waited three long years for you, since you're the one who went away. so cut her some slack, you haven't seen each other for 3 years, and instead of being happy with each other's company, you're picking at her faults, if being 'fat' even wualifies as being one. just be grateful, that she's stuck by you, so its about time you return the favour
2007-11-20 07:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice. So... you're telling us that this girl waited for your sorry azz for 3 years, and now you're upset because she's gained a bit of weight?
Try this. Do her a favor and break up with her.
She deserves better.
2007-11-20 07:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. SHALLOW!!! the fact that she waited 4 u for 3 years sez alot about her feelings for u. but obviously it was a waste since u care more about her body than who she is as a person. i feel sorry for HER since she put so much loyalty toward a guy who thinks shes a fatty. dump her so she can move on to sumone who appreciates her.
2007-11-20 07:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beggers cant be choosers. Your fault that you were in jail, not hers. Maybe she is depressed that she is with such a loser like you that she found comfort in food... get real im sure not hot woman in this world wants to be with a convict. I mean come on it's gotta be better than the men in jail :)
2007-11-20 07:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to go on a date with you and you can go running or take some kind of physical activity class together at the gym. You can also make her eat healthier by choosing healthier places to eat at. Maybe go to the spa and pay for her to get her hair done and make up and get waxed.
2007-11-20 07:48:12 · answer #11 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋