k theres this guy. he is probably the shyest guy i have ever met in my entire life. he is attractive, very smart and is amazing at sports. but he only talks to people that are his friends (so people think hes stuck up). when i first met him he would not talk to me first and just nod his head. then as he got to know me, he talked to me more.. and by the end of the day we were both crazy and laughing. he still barely talks to me (just hi hows it going). so it is impossible to read anything from him. how can i find out what hes thinking without asking him (his cousin asked him who he liked and he said nothing)
2007-11-20 08:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by T.G. <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds really shy. Give him time. Once he gets to know you better, I'm sure you won't have a problem talking to him.
You have to put yourself out there and talk to him. That's the only way you'll get to know what he's thinking about. He'll also open up to you and be more comfortable with you then.
2007-11-20 08:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient with him. Shy people sometimes put up their guards against new people until they get to know them, then they will become a little more open each time. I'd say keep talking and joking around with him and he will start opening up to you more and more. Purposely sit next to him in class. Email him, sometimes it is easier for shy people to write what they feel rather than get it out in words. Throw subtle hints, like you look nice today or tell him he has pretty eyes or a nice smile, look at him and smile a lot (so he knows you are into him), draw him a silly picture in class and then the two of you can write/crack jokes on the picture, intentionally run into him and start talking, find every opportunity you can to talk to him. Also, shy people aren't going to open up and say who they like even if they may have a little crush. Just give it time and show him you are into him.
2007-11-20 16:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find out what he is thinking without asking him. You said he talked more to you after he got to know you, you had a great time laughing etc. but now he barely talks to you. That is kind of a contradiction, just doesn't add up. He obviously has friends that he has taken the time to get to know though he is shy..so I would say that when, or if, he wants your companionship he will find a way to let you know.
2007-11-20 16:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and come out and ask him. If he's shy then being straightforward is the best approach. Ask him for ice cream or something. Ask him to walk you home just try to create the lines of conversation.
2007-11-20 16:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by glowingtwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋