Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

We took a 'break' 2 months ago. We didn't really talk for a while after the initial break because I didn't want to, then she didn't want to. But now she'll talk to me online during the day maybe once or twice a week. And she'll call me at 2 or 3 in the morning drunk telling me she misses me, still thinks about me all the time and that she'll be home from college in a couple of days and wants to hang out and tells me to call her. Then when I call she ignores my calls and she'll ask for help in her classes and never gets back to me on it. It's really confusing and annoying when you're trying to get over someone. I try not to pick up the phone or answer her online but I really want to know how she is doing at the same time.

Does anyone know what could be going on in her head?

2007-11-20 09:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling very embarassed at this moment... I was checking my boyfriend's myspace and I saw this girl who complimented him (she said that this color he was wearing looks so good on him)he's just a friend I know who she is but I don't know what happened to me I just called him and yelled something like you know what is it with this girl blah blah go take a look on what she wrote there and I was mad... He was calm and said honey why are you arguing about something so unintyeresting... you know she's just a friend... you know I love you..

In fact I know who she is and I trust my bf but I just got jealous

Now I feel ridiculous.. what do I do to rectify my stupid action ? What is he gonna think of me now ?

2007-11-20 09:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 36 years old female, I make a little over $100,000 a year as a nurse, but have the most boring job. When I was young my mom told me to become a nurse because it's a good job, but I hate nursing and I have been doing this for 16 years now. I am the breadwinner in the family, supporting my family (hubby makes $50,000 yr) we have a beuatiful house and a beautiful life-

If I wasn't in this financial situation, I would actually go back to school and find another career, but hubby discourages me because I make so much money. I know this sounds crazy but I believe money does not equal happiness- and I believe if work occupies 1/3 of your day, then it should be something that makes you happy!! What do you think?? PS- Please no haters

2007-11-20 09:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a girl ask out a guy? I dont think its the proper thing to do. Is this just my opinion or does anyone else think the same? No offence to anyone...

2007-11-20 09:45:15 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy at work who really likes me, and i like him, and right now we are just getting to know each other. The only thing is is that in my church we can't really date anyone who isn't in our church, and normally i've always told myself the same thing because it would only make me rethink where i am in life, i want a strong and faithful helpmate, well...this guy is someone i know i can see myself with, and we have been able to talk about so much and just basically get each other by day to day, i like him, and i know he likes me, is there anyone who has maybe gone through something similar? Maybe not as far as church wise but along the same lines?? Anything is a big help. thanks

2007-11-20 09:43:52 · 1 answers · asked by L.R. 2 in Singles & Dating

and notified me that all three his daugters fell in love with me.

All three his daugthers are young and beautiful, Mary has PhD in business, Bekki is about to get PhD in political sciencies, and Eva is about to graduate from university (she is the youngest).

Mary enjoys plaing tennis, Bekki plays soccer like a pro, and Eva is a star in university voleyball.

They are know to spend a lot of time discussing other sports and are of oppinion that men should regularily drink beer in company of their friends.

The banker also mentioned, that in case I marry one of his daughters, he will hand me $10,000,000 worth of stock, retire and make me the president of the bank. In case I refuse he would be forced to find another gardener.

Should I propose to one of his daugthers, or stick with my current girfriend next door?

2007-11-20 09:36:07 · 22 answers · asked by Alexander 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is nine c(:

2007-11-20 09:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by bballcutie11 1 in Family

My wife and I are in a middle of a divorce. My wife always tried to control me. I asked her more than a year to go to a counselor together. Finally we went to 2 different counselors but she did not show up the second time because she says: I am smart and educated and I know what is right!
Both counselors told her not to scream and asked me to leave the house as soon as she screams. This way I can never tell her that she is wrong. She screams, swears and just do not listen.
If I listen to it, it makes me feel so bad because she is accusing me of a lot of things that I never even think about! It really hurts!
Sometimes I wish I could tell her what is in my heart but she does not let me talk. How can I react so that she stops talking for 5 minutes and starts listening?

2007-11-20 09:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is for guys and girls. There's this guy that I've been dating and when we got on the topic of sex, he told me he's slept with 10 girls-some of them one night stands. Is this normal for guys and ok, or is this a warning sign? Your advice would be much apprectiated!

2007-11-20 09:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by <TiGerEyes> 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 09:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love the cold and hate the heat wats best for me

2007-11-20 09:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Weddings

My mom is always causing trouble in my house she looses the plot over anyting. she doesnt know when to stop fighting and always brings other ppl into it...what do i do pls help

2007-11-20 09:32:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok,so there's this guy. He's my friend's cousin and he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him. I said ''I don't know'' so he told me to think about and I said OK and that I'd call him. Well my mom said I couldn't go even if she chaperoned us and i thought it was ridiculous so basically I haven't called him yet cuz of course I don't want to tell him that. I visited his church. Should I just hang out with him there like talk and stuff. Any advice about this?

2007-11-20 09:32:09 · 4 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 09:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, I still have strong feelings for my ex. We were very close and knew everything about each other and were so in love and had so much fun together. Anyway, about 3 months ago we broke up because we were forced to(he got grounded) and I later found a new bf. Soon after my ex told me that he was waiting to get off grounding to go back out with me again but he saw that I had someone new.
A few weeks later, my ex started dating his old ex again, but quickly broke up with her because he said he didn't want to date anyone right now.
Now I just found out that he has a new girlfriend, and I am crushed because I still love him!! I don't know what to do!!! I want him back!!

Anyway, today I just broke up with my bf (the one my ex saw that i was dating) because I felt we were just friends and I still liked my ex! Now he has a gf! What do I do? I'm so confused!!! How do I get over him when I want him back!!!
Is he just a player and doesn't know what he wants or what?! Please help me!!!!!

2007-11-20 09:29:06 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

k. Am I going to be left on the shelf? I know I have a great presonality around girls. But, I become shy around guys! Is this ever going to end? I am 21 alrd.

2007-11-20 09:28:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a class with her once a week, and 2 weeks ago i started to talk to her we talk a little and she laughs alot and is very happy all the time, u know, and now its obvious she knows im interested, when we cross in hallways we say hi but its still a 'hi' with shyness i think she likes me too....so do u think its time to talk to her when i see her alone and ask her out or is it too soon, How to know when the time is right....?

2007-11-20 09:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by John V 1 in Singles & Dating

How long should you be with someone before you marry them?

2007-11-20 09:20:51 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when you give your all to someone they walk all over you.
and when you treat them horrible , you can't get rid of them....

2007-11-20 09:19:19 · 4 answers · asked by hppy2b 2 in Singles & Dating

whats the creepiest/weirdest thing a person(some you dont know) has ever done to you? i had some guy stare and follow me around in his truck today, so thats what got me to ask this

2007-11-20 09:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true the longer a couple stays together (cohabitate), the chance them getting married becomes more unlikely? I personally think that the only difference is a technicality and after 8 years it doesn't even matter. However, I do think I am being cheated out of explanation at least because most of the time I don't know what to think on the subject since I don't know what his stance is or about any marriage plans he may or may not have. I mean damn shouldn't I be able to decide what I am cool with?

2007-11-20 09:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by GTASE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 09:10:28 · 26 answers · asked by John H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am skinny (118lbs, 5'8) I don't really have a body, b cup boobs and nice shaped but not a big butt.

Okay, so me and my friends including some boys were talking and one says, "I only like light skinned girls because there p**** is pink." and others were agreeing and smiling. The ones who said it were black. They also said if a girl doesn't have a big butt/nice body, they won't even look at her. They basically ignore me. I have light skin but don't have the body they are looking for.

All the black boys have rejected me because I don't follow their ideal body image. What is the worst is a boy I like doesn't pay me any attention, but when a new girl came, light skin big booty, he was all over her! He has also said I'm cute and I'd be "perfect" if I had an a**. What the hell is wrong with black guys now? Why are they so picky??? They dont like dark skin, or skinny light skin, just light with big booty.

2007-11-20 09:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by Aijaana M 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for more than one year. I had deep feelings (still have) for this guy. He called me last night and said we have to break up. He told me he doesn't feel what I feel and it would be selfish of him to accept my love without giving anything back. Does it make him any better after all?

2007-11-20 09:07:09 · 7 answers · asked by Boginya 1 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced.
My 4 y/o daughter goes to dads house in another city 2 hours away every other weekend.
On one of her visits she returned & told me that she saw her dad and his GF having sx.
She gave me details on what he was doing to her and the facial expressions she had, the things she was shouting, and how she'd touch her body..etc.

I'm completly devistated.

What do I do from here?
How/should I take legal matter?

I confronted him & he denied it... he said "kids have imaginations, they make things up"
HELLO!!!!!!! NOT things like this! GIVE ME A BREAK!

His mother told me that they have a queen and king bed in their one bedroom apartment and they ALL sleep in there (2 adults, my daughter, and their child together)
Couldn't they give it a rest TWO days a month while my child is there????

In my home she has her own room & I have enough SENSE to lock my door if needed..

What do I do???????????????

2007-11-20 09:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by Hard at work *wink* NOT! 2 in Family

People tell me its normal, but I still feel guilty for having these thoughts. I love my fiance to death, he's the best man for me out there, we're both in our late 20s, have known each other for 4 years, dated for 3....everything is great in the relationship. But I suddenly realized that I will miss the single life....I'll miss exchanging glances with strange guys from across the room, going out dancing with guys, having that "first" kiss or awkward first date, having sex for the very first time with some one. It's not that I had such a highly sexual single life, because I didn't do anything over the top....but I think back to all the fun I had mingling as a single and I feel like its done and gone. How do you get over these feelings?

And no I didnt think about these things while we were just dating, I know some of you will say "how did you make it that far then?"....I guess it just feels like marriage really seals the deal..point of no return.

2007-11-20 09:04:51 · 23 answers · asked by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2 in Weddings

2007-11-20 09:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He wants to get married. His mommy has always bought him everything he wants. He didn't get a job until he graduated. He quit the full time job for a part time so he'd have more free time. He took a year off before college. He doesn't like to cook; he'd rather buy a burger & fries.
I went to grooming school. I own a small business that just makes enough money to live on, because it's new and so much has to go back into the business. I have a strict budget that I follow.
I understand that he has to learn from his mistakes. How do I prepare myself to go along for the ride? I am willing to have the phone and electricity cut off for not paying bills, and stuff like that, but I need to keep my business going. I need him not to use up the money from that too. Help!!!!

2007-11-20 09:02:53 · 8 answers · asked by 2bzy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter amy whos 12yrs old told me her older cousins was beating her up, So out of anger i teached her to kick them where it hurts, That was six months ago. Now my friends son told her that she kicked him afew times and she had one of her friends over and right infront of me she kicked him in groin over the remote.... i punished her and told her "You only kick a boy there if hes hitting you or your in danger",

That didnt seem to stop her, She kicked one boy in school and got in some trouble. She tells me he touched her which i know how boys are but i cant seem to believe her... what do i do.... I was young once to and yes i kicked boys more than twice just cause i wanted to, but i feel horriable about it now. I didnt know how much pain it could cause let-alone destroy his stuff for kids in the future...

what do i do to stop her from being a ball kicker...LoL

2007-11-20 09:02:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

anything u would like to say?

2007-11-20 09:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating