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We took a 'break' 2 months ago. We didn't really talk for a while after the initial break because I didn't want to, then she didn't want to. But now she'll talk to me online during the day maybe once or twice a week. And she'll call me at 2 or 3 in the morning drunk telling me she misses me, still thinks about me all the time and that she'll be home from college in a couple of days and wants to hang out and tells me to call her. Then when I call she ignores my calls and she'll ask for help in her classes and never gets back to me on it. It's really confusing and annoying when you're trying to get over someone. I try not to pick up the phone or answer her online but I really want to know how she is doing at the same time.

Does anyone know what could be going on in her head?

2007-11-20 09:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

No man never can understand what goes on in a women's head !!

2007-11-20 09:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 1 0

Sounds like she's lonely and when ur drunk ya let ya real feelings out. But when she's straight she thinks about stuff and regrets calling you. Next time she rings, ask her what she wants, if she really does miss you and thinks about you all the time, well do something about it! But if i were you id try real hard and forget about her, cause she never really will make her mind. Move on heaps more girls out there that know what they want

2007-11-20 09:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by nix 2 · 0 0

Yeah, and its completely normal. You're letting her have her cake and eat it too (not to mention you go back and clean up the crumbs for her).

You are her toy dude, stop it. If she calls, dont answer (better yet set her personal ring to silent so if she does call, you have to be looking at the phone to notice), if she comes over without an invite, dont answer teh door.

Time to make yourself unavailable adn better yet, move on. She's just using you and manipulating the situation.

Dont be that guy.

2007-11-20 09:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Phil M 7 · 0 0

Maybe she either using you, confused to wherever on what she want or just want to be your friend. Maybe you should talk to her about this in person, unlike phone/message contact. Talking online is alot different from talking to the actuall person up front. Well good luck!

2007-11-20 09:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliez2002 5 · 0 0

how you thought of the possibilty that maybe shes just not interested in you like that anymore and shes just thinks of you as a good friend or whatever, especially when she needs something. she doesn't want to lost you in her life, but she doesn't to be with you in a relationship and she probably thinks she doing you a favor by not being with, because in head she thinks shes your down fall. and if she drinks alot and is unnessarily needy maybe she is!

2007-11-20 10:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0 0

She may not exactly be sure herself. Sounds like she's not sure what she wants. When you do get ahold of her, maybe it's best you ask her this question? Ask her what's going on in her head, the only person that can tell you that is her.

2007-11-20 09:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds like she's playing head games with you. Usually when people are drunk the truth prevails.. but she is just being rude. Find someone else worthy of your time.

2007-11-20 09:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0 0

She sounds like she dosen't kow if she wants you or not, but she dosen't want you with anyone else either. You need to cut her until she figures out what she wants to do. If you find someone in the meantime... oh well her loss.

2007-11-20 09:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by achunt 3 · 0 0

If i really offend you i'm sorry but i think your ex is hanging out with the guy that told you that she misses you and stuff.Yeah there probably working out with a plan. I'm sorry, if im right.

2007-11-20 09:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Skate4Life 4 · 0 0

Eithers its A or B

A

She still has feelings for you but shes confused

B

Shes messing with your mind, to hurt you. Girls do that alot when they get hurt. They want you to remmember them and feel their pain. For some reason, girls think guys dont hurt.

2007-11-20 09:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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