This is for guys and girls. There's this guy that I've been dating and when we got on the topic of sex, he told me he's slept with 10 girls-some of them one night stands. Is this normal for guys and ok, or is this a warning sign? Your advice would be much apprectiated!
2007-11-20 09:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by <TiGerEyes> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 26 and I'm 21
2007-11-20 09:45:19 · update #1
10 is more than what ive done and im 19, but hmm 10 seems like alot but not when u compare it to what my dad has done: 200+ , and he is 46 years old. but if some girl told me she had slept with 10 girls i dont think i would want to be with her, thats 10 different penis's that have been inside of her, so thats 10 different people that may have an std. i know for some reason it seems worse when a girl is with 10 guys than a guy with 10 girls but, think about it...10 different girls hes been in, 10 different chances of an std. i mean, if him sleeping with whatever amount of girls in the past doesnt bother u then hey go ahead...and if he was being careful when he did those 10 then hell be ok
2007-11-20 09:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by It's My Turn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's kinda high. One guy I slept with said I was his 7th... I didn't even like that. And a guy I work with says he's slept with over 20 girls... And yet he wants a serious relationship. I don't know, it depends how old he is too. I know a 27 y/o who's only slept with 4 and then the 23 y/o who's slept with 20+.
If you're not comfortable with that then tell him. I think one night stands are the worst.
2007-11-20 09:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything more than ZERO should be at the bottom of your list. Look for the virgins first.
Don't listen to their brag about performance. No man in the world can hold on for more than 4 minutes. The global average is 3 minutes.
2007-11-20 09:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that if a female sleep with 10 people they are considered wild and out and if a male do it then its fine.
2007-11-20 09:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Leonette A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the past is the past... 10 doesnt sound bad to me....he has a short list and actually remembers them all...lol
just make sure if you are with him, you both stay true..
2007-11-20 09:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by beeezeey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? If your like 25+ then yes if your younger move on hes a skeeze
2007-11-20 09:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by cbabysnugglebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, Big red flags, NO, NO,NO ! IN THIS DAY AND AGE SEX CAN KILL !!!
2007-11-20 09:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old he is.
2007-11-20 09:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO THAT AINT!
2007-11-20 09:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋