why is it that you give your all and get walked on, but if you don't give your all , you cant run them off ?

Question

when you give your all to someone they walk all over you.
and when you treat them horrible , you can't get rid of them....

Answer 1

Because women (and men) always respond better to someone who represents a challenge.

it's counterintuitive but if there's a girl I really like, I don't call much and if we do talk on the phone I limit it to 10 minutes or less, I dont text at all, I dont leave v-mail, I don't bring flowers, and sometimes I cancel at the last minute. I usually reschedule with her right then & there but I subtlety make it clear that my life does not revolve around her.

Be a little bit indifferent when you do get together Be friendly & flirty, but try to avoid any heavy relationship talk. Just keep saying "let's see how it goes".

They'll be putty in your hands.

The women here will tell you that this advice is bad - but that's because they don't want to admit that they respond to this kind of treatment - but trust me friend, it does work.

I'm not amazingly attractive or incredibly funny or crazy tall or hugely successful career wise. But I never have much of a problem getting the women I want - whether it's into bed or a long term relationship.

I know it's odd to act this way - it really is unnatural - but it does work.

Answer 2

I don't think there is an answer to that question!I always get treated bad and when the women leave they take most of my stuff with them!Good luck.

Answer 3

you know i always wanted to know the answer to this... i treat women very very nice...the one i actually hit with my car is still into me 5 years after i hit her, and have been in 2 relationships since...lol... she still calls...i CANT GET RID OF HER...lol... ladies what do you think...

Answer 4

that is some what true...dont let ppl take your kindness for weakness....