I've been with this girl for over a year, we were together in high school, separated for some time, then got back together after we both had bad relationships and had a child together. So together we have three children, one mine, one hers and one ours. This is our first thanksgiving dinner that we're supposed to go to her families. I'm having a real problem with this because her grandfather molested her and likely others, but the family has always tried to hide it. I don't want my children around him at all. I've tried seeing about us going to visit some other time when he wont' be there, hell I'd rather trek all around the state than have my children around him(Or any child molester for that matter). She doesn't seem to understand why I do not want the kids there, she gives an excuse like "He doesn't do it to boys" and i can't help but think... *the family hides that he did it to anyone.. How does she know he doesn't do it to boys?*
What should I do? Am I wrong in my thinking?
2007-11-20
10:21:08
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