what does my gf mean when she says she feels akward around me, like she doesnt like to be seen with me in public, becuase i argue with her, but waht is the best way and fastest way to get her to not feel akward around me.
2007-11-20 10:31:16 · 26 answers · asked by Journy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to respect her. And it is SO embaressing to be seen fighting. So I can totally relate.
2007-11-20 10:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a bad sign when she says she feels awkward around you and she doesn't want to be seen in public with you. She's obviously ashamed of something to do with you the arguing might or might not be valid. There's no quick fix way to make a girl feel not awkward around you. Trust is an important concept of any relationship. I think you should break up with her or say you need space because you can't be with someone that doesn't feel comfortable around you or even wants to be around you socially. If there's no immediate strong resistance then chances are she was probably going to do it soon anyway. If there is resistance then its something else that would take some time and more information to answer. Email or give me more details or something and I'll help you out.
2007-11-20 18:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When YOU walk with her do you walk with her or ten steps ahead of her???
The fastest way..(now thats funny) sounds like you don't care about how she feels your more concerned with how to get the focus back on you.
So First get over your self. Treat her with some respect.
Maybe she doen't want to be with you in public because thats when you act like a macho jerk who is doing her a favor by being with her. Instead of the respect she desvers. I know ...I know can't let the "guys" see me act like I care...Who realy cares what the "guys" think how do you honestly act when they are alone with there GirlFriend.??? (Most likely not) Keep this up and she'll kick you to the crub and find someone who cares about HER!! and not try so hard to impress his friends by acting like an @55
Go ahead and give me thumbs down...don't matter...
The truth is so hard to hear sometimes...
You should worry more about how she feel and thinks than what other people think.
2007-11-20 18:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices in relationships. Be who you are and not change, or be with who you want to be with and change.
Since I don't know either you or your GF, I am unsure what the problem really is. If you argue to argue, stop being a jerk and demeaning to her. We as young men can be real douch-bags to our girls. Primarily because while we are young we are all about or egos and they are so huge yet frail. Now If she is an idiot, accept it and stop arguing or move on bro!
2007-11-20 18:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Burnsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...maybe she feels akward around u cuz she knows that yall are very capable of fighting with each other in public and when yall do it doesnt look right so yea try having patience wit each other and start respectin each other man...idk but watever it is talk 2 her so u can save the relationship before its to late...
2007-11-20 18:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop arguing with her. Who would want to be with anybody that makes them feel bad in public. Things that you think you are going to argue about should be behind closed doors not for public view. Respect that and maybe she might want to go in public with you.
2007-11-20 18:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit arguing with her in public
2007-11-20 18:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe treat her better. If you argue and make her feel inferior, she won't want to be around you at all evenntully. Why are you arguing in oublic? Treat her nicer. Be more understanding
2007-11-20 18:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by tone 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol stop arguing with her... she doesnt like to be seen in public as so confrontational maybe? people like to have a good appearance in public...
please try to be nicer to her? or.....shes gonna dump you
2007-11-20 18:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your ways and be more with her then against her. She obivously feels bad about herself when shees around you. Just be a better BF before ur history.
2007-11-20 18:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋