Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

2007-11-20 11:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by cry_wolf 4 in Singles & Dating

Alight.... I want to know if I am over reacting. so I am 19 and my boyfriend is 21. He LOVES to go out and I can't because I am not old enough and don't have a fake. I see my boyfriend quite a bit during the week... on the nights he doesn't go out and then come the weekend I know I won't see him because he wants to go out. When me and him do see each other at night he comes over and we don't really do anything.. I may finish some homework, we watch TV, and go to sleep. I feel like yes I get to see him, but its not like I really get to hang out with him because we aren't doing anything. Its not that I need to do something that costs money I just want it to seem like "oh I have nothing better to do so I will just do what I would do at home, but just do it with my girlfriend" I know he loves me, but I feel if he had to choose he would pick going out over seeing me. I have talked to him about it and he said he wouldn't choose going out over me, but yet he doesn't really act like it.

2007-11-20 11:55:39 · 21 answers · asked by Panda23 2 in Singles & Dating

She wont call..but her besfriend who is also my friend told me she likes me
we already went out one time..but then The last time i asked her to go out..and she said she was ¨sick¨ i know is not true ( dont ask me how,doesnt matter),so i told her to call me back and she says : YES. and she did not call. my friend told me she likes me but she says the man should call. But i already called that Bi%& and i hate being a pushover..She is telling me to call her, to call her.is being like a week since the last time i called her,.. Should i send her a txt message or something, i wont call. and what do i write?

Do she really likes me? i dont care if she is playing hard to get, im too lazy to even try...

SHES NOT SHY.

2007-11-20 11:50:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who really likes me but i dont feel the same way about him, in addition he is Indian and Im black (Ive never dated outside my race before). How do I tell him I only like him as a friend without hurting him ? please help he is really nice to me (very good friend)

2007-11-20 11:47:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cocoa Honey 3 in Singles & Dating

they always tickle me if i played a joke on them or they do it for fun see me get tickle. but i`m asking anybody about that.

2007-11-20 11:47:08 · 4 answers · asked by REBECCA M 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you mind if a guy got hard during a dance if he was really attractive?

2007-11-20 11:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by ryan 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over a month now, and the whole time I've been having to deal with her and her recent exbf.. he's still obsessed with her and talks with her about getting back together with her. Well, I'm tired of dealing with it all, and today I threatened him if he wouldn't quit being an *** to my girlfriend. I have a porn video that he made and sent to her A WEEK after me and her started dating, and I threatened to use it against him if he doesn't stop trying to get back together with her! And to make things worse, she wants to be good friends with him... they even hung out alone the other day.

Am I wrong to think that it's a had idea for them to be good friends when he so desperately wants to get back together with her?! She's pissed at me now for "getting involved in matters that don't concern me" ... when obviously it DOES concern me..

2007-11-20 11:43:51 · 24 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

AHHH they suck! They just grounded me from swimming in our indoor pool and from playing my Nintendo Wii!!! All of that just for getting a D on my math test. What losers. I'm grounded until Thursday and it's only Tuesday!!!!!!!!! How can I divorce them?

2007-11-20 11:43:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like this guy and HE told me that he likes me but he never asked me out...what should i do??

2007-11-20 11:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on her for a really long time. We dated and we decided to be friends because she wasn't ready for a 'relationship' yet. I really would like a relationship but she revealed to me that she is really interested in just 'having fun' right now. By having fun, she means having one night stands where she doesn't ever have to see the guy again. She told me she wanted to sleep with me but she couldn't bring herself to do it because she sees me every day in class. Well, a few days ago she started hinting around that she wouldn't mind sleeping with me after all. I really would like to, but I'm afraid that it will only make me want her more. It will make me want a relationship even more but I know she doesn't want that. I know this sounds unmanly, but I'm afraid that by sleeping with her, I will be setting myself up for a lot of pain and heartache. I care about her deeply. What should I do? Should I just keep going with my life and try to forget her advances or...?

2007-11-20 11:40:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true that your first love will NEVER like you back?????
or rarely?

2007-11-20 11:37:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's my newiest question, if a Brother & Sister who was adopted got married is it wrong?

2007-11-20 11:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you dare a Porn Star and who would it be? I would go out with Vanessa Blue she is so fine!

2007-11-20 11:36:31 · 20 answers · asked by Daryl A 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 12 years. After losing his job 3 1/2 years ago he has spent it sitting on the couch playing a computer game. I make an OK living but not enough for the both of us. I refianaced the house two years ago and took some money out, but that has pretty much dried up. Now instead I am going into debt. My house is a mess since he will not lift a finger to do anything. I just don't want to live life this way any longer. I want to be able to make this right for the both of us. Splitting up is always difficult. I don't want the yelling or screaming, just a clean break. How would you go about this if it were you?

2007-11-20 11:36:27 · 15 answers · asked by Katie H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or can I put the two of us last name on her?For example:
smith-davis.I need some suggestions.If there is a web site that you know of please let me know.I dont really care about the child support thing.Just what the last name will be.I need help please.

2007-11-20 11:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she left the home but the home was purchased after we were married, and she doesn't work and never has

2007-11-20 11:31:56 · 22 answers · asked by Dave S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious and if anyone makes any racist remarks I will report you. Also I give Best Answer to people who have a full explanation!

2007-11-20 11:28:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow I am getting married, and it's exiting but overwelming I just can't believe that it's finally here is there any encouraging things to say to boost my confidence? it's kinda scary.

2007-11-20 11:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by warren c 1 in Weddings

: if they see the side of ur face and say oh u look very handsome in the side when u have a wife they will be like let me c the side of ur face...
lol i know shes jk bec she does say im handsome like all the time but i really think i look good on the side and not so much in front lol so idk? i got mad at her and teased her back and she said im jk
iim in my 20btw

2007-11-20 11:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 29 years old and soon turning 30, and I have trouble finding a woman to meet and maybe to be my wife. I want to meet a woman who loves me and I want to start a family. I worry that being 30 years old no woman wants me and I think its too late to start a family. Where do people meet/find their significant mate/other? I always think that college is the place where people meet/find their significant other. I always regretted not finding a girlfriend/special woman during the time when I was at Baruch College. I'm worried that me in my 30s it's impossible to find a woman/significant other to marry and perhaps start a family. I'm still married but NOT HAPPILY married and soon to divorce. Where can I find my significant other to meet and perhaps marry?

2007-11-20 11:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm really bored and just having fun today I've been so stressed out lately how will I know when I've gone to far

2007-11-20 11:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Friends

Well his name is Joey. And he moved to my neighborhood this year. He also goes to my school. He has made lots of friends and he is my buddy! I mean we talk at school (when we get the chance.) We talk on the bus and he is always making these funny and stupid jokes about Marcus (this guy who we all say is gay, but really isn't.) He has this blonde spikey hair, these light blue eyes and he is just cute. Now he is my friend so I don't realy think that I like him. But sometimes I just look at him and I am like, wow he is actually cute. I do not know what to do. He is my friend but on the other hand. I need advice. Anyone!?

2007-11-20 11:18:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-20 11:18:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Firstly we love each other deeply. So pls no suggestions like 'leave her'!! We love each other and have a great time. But its one thing being a lover with your wife and another being her friend. In terms of the 'lover' side, all is fine. But in terms of the 'friend' side when we are not saying 'hey your beautiful or i love you' etc. etc. there just seems like we dont have that much to talk about. I mean so many times we just get silent (its a comfortable silence).

We are JUST married. I want to open up to her and want her to open up to me a lot more. I feel like if we both do then there wont be that many silences. But I think she has great difficutlies in opening up with me I really dont know y. Ive said it SO many times, please open up with me. I know she thinks of her close sisters and brothers A LOT. I told her tell me what shes thinking about them but she doesnt that much.
When we talk we hover around topics we never go in deep.


What to do? How to become better 'friends'??

2007-11-20 11:10:59 · 13 answers · asked by K B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 11:06:56 · 36 answers · asked by bright 2 in Singles & Dating

He likes being Mr popular
a.should they escape once in awhile in secret without telling there parents
b.Think your parents know best and stay friends
c.Kill the parents and live as fugitives......lol

2007-11-20 11:05:01 · 1 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Friends

none of then worked what do i do now plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help

2007-11-20 11:03:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

nothing hurtful and something that she and he wants to do

2007-11-20 11:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Having grown up in a small town, I was definitely not used to meeting new people when I transitioned into college. I'm in my sophomore year, but I have yet to make a really lasting friendship. I seem to connect really well with guys, but then they always try to get in my pants, which is getting really old. Is there any good general way to connect with girls?

2007-11-20 11:02:23 · 2 answers · asked by Beckita 2 in Friends

For our first dance, instead of the traditional slow soppy dance, me and my partner would like a fun one to surprise our guests (as it's something they would never expect from us!)
We were thinking along the lines of:
Crazy Little Thing Called Love
However would like some more suggestions :)
The song must be based around love/togetherness/friendship etc.

2007-11-20 11:01:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings