Tomorrow I am getting married, and it's exiting but overwelming I just can't believe that it's finally here is there any encouraging things to say to boost my confidence? it's kinda scary.
2007-11-20 11:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by warren c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Congratulations. Do your best to be the kind of husband that Christ Jesus is to the congregation. Remember to love your wife as you do yourself. (Ephesians 5:25, 28-29)That means that you should have healthy self-esteem in order to love her as you should. (Romans 12:3) You both will make mistakes. Forgive one another freely and move on. Learn from the mistakes and forgive yourselves. (Colossians 3:13-14)
May you and your beloved have a long and happy together life filled with love and blessings from Jehovah.
2007-11-20 17:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just think of all of the wonderful things that remind you of your fiance. The reasons why you wanted to marry her in the first place. When you see her coming down the aisle tomorrow (or whatever type of ceremony you are having) in her dress that she picked out just for you remember that the huge smile across her face is because in just a few moments she will become your wife and will get to have many wonderful and happy moments with you for the rest of your lives. Congratulations and have fun tomorrow.
2007-11-20 19:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My husband felt the same way...
Just keep your eye 'on the prize' - a wonderful woman you are going to marry, the day will be wonderful as family and friends gather to witness your vows and celebrate with you - and the amazing marriage you are going to have together.
Congrats! Best advice - stay away from the booze.
2007-11-21 10:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have chosen the right mate, you are about to embark on the most wonderful, exciting, fulfilling, journey of your life. It isn't all a bed of roses, but the good exceeds the bad 10-1 if you are honest with each other. Here's a few tips:
1) remove the word "divorce" from your vocabulary.
2) never go to bed with a fight unfinished, with you or your spouse being angry.
and
3)if you treat her like a queen,and her you like a king, EVERY day, your marriage will be the best thing you,ve ever lived through.
2007-11-20 19:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Nerves are perfectly normal! You are pledging your life, love, and devotion to one person. Whenever the nerves get really bad, just think of all the reasons you love her, and your fears will be replaced with a smile. Just remember, courting doesn't end at the alter (a K. Hunter quote), keep God at your center, and give as much as you take and you will have a beautiful marriage.
2007-11-20 22:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a HUGE step in life but it is an exciting one. it's completely normal to be scared but you would not have decided to get married in the first place if it wasn't what you really wanted. i'm sure you two will have a wonderful life together as you start this new and exciting chapter. i wish you both the best of luck!
2007-11-20 19:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
best of luck to you and your bride. yes marriage is scary. it is alot of work. just remember two things. never go to bed mad at each other and second talk things over. read in your bible first Corinthians 13 verse four until 8. it talks about love. I was married 35 years before my husband went to sleep in death in 2004. we had many hard times but we stayed together. yes, there will be times that you may not agree but just remember, you love each other. remember also. to keep Jehovah God and Jesus Christ in your marriage and they will help you always
2007-11-20 19:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations and all the best to you and your future wife.
Commitment to marriage does not mean that marriage mates will never disagree with each other. When a conflict occurs, there should be an earnest desire to resolve the matter not only because of an obligatory vow but because of an emotional bond. Regarding husband and wife, Jesus said: “They are no longer two, but one flesh.”
What does it mean to be “one flesh” with your mate? The apostle Paul wrote that “husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies.” (Ephesians 5:28, 29) In part, then, being “one flesh” means that you feel as concerned with the welfare of your mate as you are with your own. Married people need to shift their thinking from “mine” to “ours,” from “me” to “we.”
2007-11-21 10:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Everlasting Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's scary, but I've got to tell you, if you have the kind of marriage my husband and I do, then tomorrow is the beginning of the most wonderful years of your life!
2007-11-20 19:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's ohkay! Everyone's nervous before getting married. Breathe out. It's going to fine. Of course it's exciting! You're getting married! I know it's kind of hard to take it all in, but, YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED! Good luck!
2007-11-20 19:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋