I'm 29 years old and soon turning 30, and I have trouble finding a woman to meet and maybe to be my wife. I want to meet a woman who loves me and I want to start a family. I worry that being 30 years old no woman wants me and I think its too late to start a family. Where do people meet/find their significant mate/other? I always think that college is the place where people meet/find their significant other. I always regretted not finding a girlfriend/special woman during the time when I was at Baruch College. I'm worried that me in my 30s it's impossible to find a woman/significant other to marry and perhaps start a family. I'm still married but NOT HAPPILY married and soon to divorce. Where can I find my significant other to meet and perhaps marry?
2007-11-20 11:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to stop worrying about it until you ARE divorced!
2007-11-20 11:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are a real piece of work. You're amazing. You have the NERVE to come on here pretending to be single, knowing you are married. So you found someone special and messed it up or maybe she wasn't the right person for you. But if you married her because you were desperate or any other reason than you guys both loving each other, then you brought all this on yourself. I'm not going to lie, but yes, it will be very hard as a divorcee to find another "special" person. So good luck with that, college is over, and maybe you should think about you. Don't rush into marriage so quickly because you want to start a family, do it because you love them and you want to have children with them. Don't chase something you want, with someone you don't, because it never turns out good for both parties.So good luck love.
2007-11-20 11:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proacvtive, go do something you love to do, that way, if/when you meet someone, you have a common interest. I'm dealing with a similar problem of just ending a long term relationship and wanting to at least date but not knowing how anymore. But, like riding a bike, its something you don't forget. Mention to friends and family that you DO want to find someone to make you happy and start a family with, that way the word is out and they might be able to set you up (especially because they know you and your personality).
I guess the main thing is to just go out and do stuff, join groups or charities and what not so you can meet new people.
2007-11-23 11:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liz R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men as they age get sexier it shouldn't be that hard to find another woman however slow down boy have fun being single don't rush things because you need to look and see why your marriage failed so you do not make the same mistake.
2007-11-20 11:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not happily married eh? You're poor, poor wife. Yeah, go back to college.. start you're life over dude. What a piece of work you are
2007-11-20 11:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worried about meeting ANOTHER significant other when you are still married to one?
2007-11-20 11:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Church if you're looking for a good one.
Join some of the meetup.com groups
2007-11-20 12:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jack Bent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, just jump outta one frying pan and into another! is ur self esteem that low that u wanna run into another marriage?
2007-11-20 11:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO GROCERY SHOPPING THERE ARE ALOT OF WOMEN THERE ALONE.
2007-11-20 11:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋