Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

Such as body language and so? And when having to spend a little time around one another?

2007-11-20 06:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my bf of 7 yrs last week and I've noticed that in the morning I am more emotional than any other time of the day. Is there any reason for that? Just like if I wake up in the middle of night I get up crying and thinking about him and what I am doing. I am sure of what I am doing but, is this normal? Has anyone experience these feelings before during a break up or a bad time in their life?

2007-11-20 06:50:03 · 9 answers · asked by ME 3 in Singles & Dating

A woman in my department uses what I would call “baby-talk”. She’s 43, never had a date – I suppose she wants to be the Mother of the office.

She is an OK employee (lots of drama at home) but when she speaks to me (dept. admin) she says things like, “Precious, I have to go downstairs...” “Pretty lady, I have to call...”, “Boo, I want to tell you...”, “Good morning Precious! What a pretty blouse for the Pretty Lady!” And when she comments on the picture of my granddaughter she speaks in a lispy, fake, even worse baby voice. GAG!!!! She is not gay and wants a boyfriend in the worst way. She is overly emotional and all attempts to speak with her about issues elicits a huge passive-aggressive attitude and she feels very wronged by the world. She just cannot speak to me and others without the baby-talk. What to do?

2007-11-20 06:49:59 · 5 answers · asked by celticlass8888 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

planning to get married next summer (!). Neither me or my partner are religious, just wondering about how you can get married without any religious mentionings, or venues. We are thinking of a registry office, but wondering where else is possible?

2007-11-20 06:49:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My son is 17 month old when we filed for taxes last year i took it to the place with me and i cant find it ,my question is :
if i let the ss office know will they issue another number or just a new card .
Thanks.

2007-11-20 06:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby # 2 :) 3 in Family

I know and like this girl - we went out on one date - which we had to reschedule a couple of times to even accomplish.

A week later I asked her out on a second date and gave her like a week notice for it. She accepted enthusiastically.

Today, she's claiming that she suddenly has to work tonight and needs to cancel.

Now, I know what she does and her job is flexible - with a weeks notice she certainly could have made this work so what this says to me is that she's just not interested and I'm fine with that but why not just say so?

I was planning on taking her to see a band we both like at a small club. I still want to go.

My instinct says that I should tell her - "don't sweat it - I can take someone else" - which I certainly can - she's not the only girl I'm dating and I know that at least one will jump on the opportunity.

But the question is - Is that too harsh? I do like her but I want her to know that if she wants to date me that she needs to take this a little more seriously.

2007-11-20 06:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by derek985 2 in Singles & Dating

I've never seen a penis or testicles on a bird. What are they doing to reproduce?

2007-11-20 06:45:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf said that he likes me again after he just got done "loving" my bff. It is so crazy. I just want him to stay away. I don't want him to come back after what that jerk has done to me! He just likes to create drama. I want to tell him the truth about how I feel about him without hurting his feelings. I guess it would me ok if we were just friends but I just want to leave it at that. I do not want a bf right now. I want to take a break from boys and just focus on school. What do I say to him?

2007-11-20 06:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Muffin ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend suffers from depression/emotional issues and he psushes me away every and now and then. when I try to talk to him while he's feeling like this-its like im talking to a brick wall and then i get frustarted. but when hes feeling okay he tells me that hes sorry and thinks about me all the time while hes depressed. So last night I wrote a letter to him telling him everything how I feel (since its so hard to talk to him write now). I already gave it to him so theres nothing I can do now. But do you think most guys would like that? Or does it seem kind of weird and immature?

2007-11-20 06:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i am 16 and my dad is 48.... him and my mom split when i was 2 so i never really new them together.. so now my dad is dating a 22 year old and it is really weird. espesialy becasue i have a sister that is 21 (we have different dads) and i feel akward when we my dad and his girlfriend and I are hanging out. what shoul di do to tell him how i feel. she is a really cool person its just we are close enough to be sisters!

2007-11-20 06:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well I know my boyfriend for 5 months now, but we got in serious relationship about a month and a half ago. He takes me everywhere he goes, He says that he loves me. But for thanksgiving he did not ask me to visit his family with him( not even a word). And i can not ask him that cuz it wont sound right. Why not?

2007-11-20 06:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I am going to go hang out with this guy I really like tonight and I am thinking of kissing him. The only bad thing is I don't know if he likes me! We've been talking on myspace a lot and I suggested we hang out more and become closer and he said yeah :)

I don't really know what that means...but whatever. so pleaseee help! I don't know if he likes me and this is our first time being alone together! We are gonna go to the beach to "talk" (i suggessted it) what do we talk about?!??!? We're both really shy. I don't know if he likes me...but I realllllllyy wanna kiss him! HELP! HELP!

2007-11-20 06:39:38 · 24 answers · asked by Victoria 2 in Singles & Dating

IF your husband did a strip tease for you on your birthday would you like it or leave the room???

2007-11-20 06:38:14 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Came home from a nice day seeing my bro and my mum goes on about a rubbish day she had, so i let her talk about it. i go for a bath and she puts on tea. i come down for tea and have some but i'm not that hungry. and she starts shouting at me for not being hungry. i explained that i wasnt that hungry at the start but she could've eaten with me. then she starts saying i am selfish and i do everything my way etc. Basically just trying to starta row, saying i should make tea etc. I don't really understand why she went totally crazy for basically nothing. I said id speak to her if she'd let me speak but she said 'no listen to me'...i dont get it, have i dont anything wrong? Whys she acting like this??

2007-11-20 06:37:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like him but i dont wanna do that whole girlfriend n' boyfriend and he's kind of a playa and plus i dont want a boyfriend right now
so do i just tell him "hey i want to be friends with benefits"?

p.s. im in 9th grade

2007-11-20 06:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 8 1/2 years. We have 2 children, the older child is his son from a previous relationship, whom I've legally adopted and raised for the past 8 years. Every time I leave him, he proceeds to make my life a living nightmare. He calls me at work, constantly, which I'm more than sure has cost me more than 1 job, he makes DYFS (child services) complaints against me, which are never substantiated, however, just having those people in my house is irritating enough. I've even had restraining orders on him, which do absolutely nothing, since when I call the police, they take over an hour to come to my aid. At this point, I'm ready to do whatever it takes to leave him. He's just completely nasty to me and the kids and we just want him to leave. Problem is, I can't afford to live on my own. Is there some sort of program that can help me get on my feet? My kids have been through enough, I don't want to have to move them to a new place and a new school.

2007-11-20 06:34:49 · 28 answers · asked by ~Jenn~ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is a older guy at work, single, very nice, a gentelman and very polished. He has been showering attention at me. Gave me concert tickets, a nice birthday gift and we went out for dinner at a very nice and cosy resturant. It was a wonderful evening. One of the best in a long time.I see so much caring in his eyes for me. He did say that he would never hurt me and would be always there for me and expects nothing in return from me.

I have a boyfriend already. I like him too, he is very good to me, a bit controlling but this man treats me with so much care and affection. i am taking my boyfriend to meet my parents as they wud like to see who I am living with. I
I have mentioned my boyfriend to him a couple of times but have never been able to say it bluntly. He is just so sensitive and caring that i am surprised that people like that exist, he is very genuine and i know he is not a player.
So my question is , is he in love with me and what should i do.

2007-11-20 06:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 06:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

i am the stay at home parent and i cook all the meals and when she tries the kids hate it, every thanksgiving which my wife wants to cook she makes things the kids hate except the turkey, last year she put sour cream in the mashed potatos, it was awful, i am not looking forward to this again, what can i do

2007-11-20 06:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 in Family

i am the stay at home parent and i cook all the meals and when she tries the kids hate it, every thanksgiving which my wife wants to cook she makes things the kids hate except the turkey, last year she put sour cream in the mashed potatos, it was awful, i am not looking forward to this again, what can i do

2007-11-20 06:29:37 · 28 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and fiance cant seem to find a good place for our destination wedding. we find one and it ends up costing a fortune! but i want it to be perfect and all this stuff i have to do is really stressing me out! has anyone gone through this and maybe help me out? im also running out of places to research..i would like somewhere in florida..but like i said running out of places to research

2007-11-20 06:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by hot*stuff 2 in Weddings

i'm a christian, i'm married, my wife and I are both saved. I still feel like leaving her for the way she treats me, she calls me name, she tries to be little me, but yet she loves God, trying but it's so hard!

2007-11-20 06:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by jokay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our mom spent 42 years married to our dad and had four children together. Now our dad passed away in 2003 and mom is dating a new man she plans on getting married to. We have no problem with that. All her grown children are all happy for her and happy she is moving on. However, she had planned to be cremated and put in the double urn with our dad and now she says she just wants to dump our dads ashes. We feel this is unfair to a man she spent her life with. Our dad was a wonderful man and loved her to the end of the earth. She is also refusing to keep anything even pictures of our dad. How could she be so heartless to a man she loved for 42 years and who is our father. All four of her children feel very hurt by how she is just gonna abandon the memory of our father. Any opinions.

2007-11-20 06:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got my report card, I had 1 B and all of them are A's. Then my parents nag at me, they said, "you're so lucky that you're in the US, and everything is handed to you on a silver platter". Then I got lectured by them. That upsets me because they want me to be perfect all the time, I'm not perfect. I feel bad, like I'm not good enough for them. I'm so extra grateful I have them, I know they want me to be successful in life, but crying over a B, that is extreme. Is it because their Asian (no offense) or most parents are like that? Why are my parents hard on me?

2007-11-20 06:24:37 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance want to keep our reception relatively small, 50 maybe 75 people. We're inviting people from both our congregations and family from out of town to hear the wedding talk and the reciting of our vows. But we need to cut down on the money spent so we're only inviting close family and very close friends to the reception. How can i help people not to get mad or feel left out? I know i can't please everyone but i can try to explain somehow.

2007-11-20 06:24:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so there is this girl i really like and the first girl ive had a crush on....... i give her flowers and she blushes and all that but doesnt say too much (that was friday) then thinking i might have a chance i asked her to the movies last night to see a horror movie ...in the movie i put my arm around her and she then cuddled up to me and put her head just under mine :) so i thought she might like me soo when the movie was finished i asked her if she liked me and she said only as a friend!! :( i mean i am very confused ...why didnt she say something to me on friday and why did she cuddle up to me ....i really feel crap

2007-11-20 06:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this guy I like and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I was supposed to call him last week for help with my homework, but I got nervous and never called him. So when I talked to him this weekend (we work at different stores but have to call each other if we need something from the other store) he was all happy and joking around until I mentioned that I didn't get a chance to call him. Then he got quiet and I almost had to wrestle another time to call out of him whereas the first time he seemed pretty excited (he didn't seem to believe that I was really going to call when I said I would either.)

So, the time that I was supposed to call rolled around again, and I didn't call that time either because I got really, really sick. (Probably still just nerves.) So I sent him a text this time saying I was running late, asking if I could call tomorrow (today) and what time was best.

He didn't text me back.

So, what should I do now? Call him and apologize?

2007-11-20 06:23:48 · 2 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there. I have a big problem with a boy at my school who is totally perverted. He always stares at me in a really creepy way and when he gets close enough he actually squeezes my breasts! He doesn't even stare at my face but at my chest and I'm only 13. I need your advice, boys and girls please!!!!

2007-11-20 06:23:15 · 52 answers · asked by Sophie X 1 in Singles & Dating

my father has a wonderful wife(she is my step-mom), they have been togather for 14 years, he is from Jordan, he went back to Jordan over the summer and got married again to some girl(they can have four wives) .. I feel like I should do something or say something to my step-mom. ooh and the new wife thinks he is divorced!! what should I do?

2007-11-20 06:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by kruncky2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are planning on going to Jamaica with our family and friends to get married. But, he wants to get married before we go at a JOP to make things easier with my insurance, etc. (you don't get your marriage license from Jamaica for 12-14 weeks).
I talked to my travel agent and she said it's not an option for the Jamaican officials to just not file the marriage certificate once the wedding is finished.
So, is it legal to marry the same person twice and file both licenses for both marriages?

2007-11-20 06:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by PuppyLuv1978 3 in Weddings