like him but i dont wanna do that whole girlfriend n' boyfriend and he's kind of a playa and plus i dont want a boyfriend right now
so do i just tell him "hey i want to be friends with benefits"?
p.s. im in 9th grade
2007-11-20 06:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's pretty simple: just tell him. bluntness helps in these situations
2007-11-20 06:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by RachelleG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of approximately no depend while you're making passionate advance advance or if he merely bends you over a chair or corners you in the showering room for a quickie. Does he seem into your eyes for the period of? Does he inform you he loves you? you could often tell if a guy needs you for a girl buddy, or if he's merely having exciting. it would desire to be somewhat obtrusive which you're falling in love with him and he's merely playing you to advance his ego. some men will try this, so be careful.
2016-10-02 03:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him and be sure you are 5 years older when next you offer him benefits. At 9th grade your to young to be giving benefits.
2007-11-20 06:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just say it, but when I was in 9th grade I had no clue what that was. So, you might have to explain it to him. And if that doesn't work out let me know, I'll give you what you want.
2007-11-20 06:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by pmk5252 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have to agree with jleigh120 your way to young you wanna start your name as a slut now then go for it. and loose all respect from guys and girls. but thats your choice so just say it!
2007-11-20 06:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him and say i am a tramp that is too insecure to commit, but let's hook up and spread our many diseases to the rest of the population.
see, it's easier than you thought. get some self respect.
2007-11-20 06:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by jleigh120 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you need a lil break off
2007-11-20 06:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by jaimie a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to hang out and then suck on his nuts he will understand
2007-11-20 07:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight that ya just wanna be the school garden tool..........
2007-11-20 06:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by reddbbird92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14, Hon at your age please make it just friends ! You don"t want a bad reputation.
2007-11-20 06:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋