Ok, there is a older guy at work, single, very nice, a gentelman and very polished. He has been showering attention at me. Gave me concert tickets, a nice birthday gift and we went out for dinner at a very nice and cosy resturant. It was a wonderful evening. One of the best in a long time.I see so much caring in his eyes for me. He did say that he would never hurt me and would be always there for me and expects nothing in return from me.
I have a boyfriend already. I like him too, he is very good to me, a bit controlling but this man treats me with so much care and affection. i am taking my boyfriend to meet my parents as they wud like to see who I am living with. I
I have mentioned my boyfriend to him a couple of times but have never been able to say it bluntly. He is just so sensitive and caring that i am surprised that people like that exist, he is very genuine and i know he is not a player.
So my question is , is he in love with me and what should i do.
2007-11-20 06:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a smart old guy with money to "invest"... invest in your puss*y!!!.... he will bide his time and plant seeds of doubt in your current bf... until you dump the bf and look for some comfort with your sugardaddy...mmmmm, sugar.
cheers!
2007-11-20 06:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if he's actually in love with you YET but there are definitely some feelings involved.
He could just be a great person being a great friend but to me it seems like he's gone out of his way to impress you and do things for you, which proves he likes you.
The question for you is, do you really want to be with your current boyfriend, or is this guy actually stealing your heart?
2007-11-20 14:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. There will be a point in which you must decide between the two guys. I think that this man sounds as if he would take care of you well, and sounds very kind and good. I would personally go for the gentleman, but that is me.He sounds as if he cares for you alot, and you need to make this decision, not me.
2007-11-20 14:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mercutia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't know if the guy at work is in love with you or might in the future, but you CAN learn something about yourself from this. You are not happy with your controlling boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't be tempted by other guys. It's not fair to your bf to stay with him if you are not happy. You need to decide if you are committed to making your current relationship work. If not, let him go. You should not be asking is the guy at work in love with you - you should be asking are you in love with your bf? If the answer is no (which it appears to be), are you strong enough to be on your own without a bf for a while, and respectful enough to your bf to be honest with him? The guy at work comes later, and it may or may not work with him. Start by being honest with yourself and with your bf.
2007-11-20 15:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is in love with you the signs point it out but sence you have a boy friend you have to let this guy down easily dont lead him to think you love him back if you do that you might be stuck with him trying to call you showing up at your house.
it can escalate into a big problem so just tell him you are seeing some one and cant be with him at this time trust me he might understand.tell him that you had fun with him on all the dates you both had. and let him go.
2007-11-20 14:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by CADILLAC MAN 23 M C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say date him but u live with some one. He does like u and seems like a nice guy but I wouldn't call it love he is jut a nice guy. If u don't have them same feelings for him u should tell him instead of leading him on
2007-11-20 14:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Healing for My Soul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is testing the waters with you, just dipping in a toe to see what your reaction is. You need to decide what you think. He might not love you but he wans to know more about you and is being casual about it so as not to be too forward in case you decide to stay with your boyfriend.
2007-11-20 14:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you is just take it slow feel him out because they are all sweet and nice at first but unfortunately some of those guys turn out to be jerks so just take it slow sweetie! and is he in love with you?? well Hun that's not a question you need us to answer for you talk to him about it because without communication there cannot be love, its a big happy circle and we simply cannot tell what his heart feels..just take your time and good luck Hun let us know how it goes!!
2007-11-20 14:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by babigirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just search deep down in side your heart and see which one is right for you. When you do that then you will find out who's the one.
2007-11-20 14:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by star4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to search deep and find out who would make you happier! I do believe the guy at work is a guy that you are infatuated with and you love the guy you are with.. search your heart ! It never lies you always know what you feel and are just afraid to feel it!
2007-11-20 14:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by vh13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does sound like he has a thing for you. what you should do is to NOT go out with him. he gave you gifts and stuff, and you had accepted them, and you had dinner with him many times, you are at the edge of ruining your relationship since he's already got in your head.
2007-11-20 14:38:36 · answer #11 · answered by Carborane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋