to kiss? HELP?

Question

Well, I am going to go hang out with this guy I really like tonight and I am thinking of kissing him. The only bad thing is I don't know if he likes me! We've been talking on myspace a lot and I suggested we hang out more and become closer and he said yeah :)

I don't really know what that means...but whatever. so pleaseee help! I don't know if he likes me and this is our first time being alone together! We are gonna go to the beach to "talk" (i suggessted it) what do we talk about?!??!? We're both really shy. I don't know if he likes me...but I realllllllyy wanna kiss him! HELP! HELP!

I don't think it's a date and we didn't meet on myspace--we just talk on there. lol I see him in real life too :)

Answer 1

WOW YOU MEET HIM IN MYSPACE? YOU SHOULD BE CAREFUL BUT ANYWAY WELL JUST TAKE IT SLOW I MEAN LOOK AT THE WAY HE REACTS AND JUST LET HIM DO THE MOVES YOU JUST WAIT....GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN:)

Answer 2

Well first of all i think that you should just be yourself around him & if you dont feel comfortable then it might not be right. to help you when you kiss him before & after...... my friend sent this 2 me----


HOW 2 FRENCH KISS (bryn found it 4 me. :D)

1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed
and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person.
There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a
garbage truck

2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if
your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion -
Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.

3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause
pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the
neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or
both sides.

4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses.
Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so
you don't bump noses.

5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close
your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations
you feel, and also sets the mood.

6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with
simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going
anywhere else.

7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly
draw your tongue across the other person's lips.

8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly
parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's
tongue in a light licking motion.

9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is
why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.


10. After you've tried lightly licking the other
person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling
with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her
mouth ) and other things like that.

11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially
the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the
area with your tongue.

12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.

13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a
windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way
through.

14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your
nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.

15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too,
lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along
the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the
inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your
fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.

16. Continue kissing.

you dont have to do it on a couch i did it on a
backroad walking a girl home :)

good luck :)

Answer 3

Since this is your first date i would not kiss him, or at least not with tounge. When a guy says he wants to hang out and become closer he probably likes you. So just ask him questions about his life and flirt with him a lot. Try to hold his hand during the date. If things are going really well and you are pretty sure he likes you, then at the end of then night i would lean in and give him a romantic peck. Tell him tonight was really fun and that you should definately hang out again sometime.

Answer 4

Ok, first of all ... BREATHE!!!! You sound like you're going a million miles an hour.

First part about relationships ... make it look easy & unplanned.

If you've been talking on myspace you've probably got a list of things you already have in common. So ... bring up some of those things. Remember the idea is to find things in common with him and that gives him the idea that you guys are compatible.

Whether he likes you or not ... hmmm ... that's a tough one ... Most guys can't really tell a gal if he likes her that easily. I'm one of em' I guess. I'd say go for the non verbal clues on this one, if he like goes for your leg or to put a hand on you or something like that he's proably telling you he likes the way you look, but if he truly respects you and thinks of you beyond just physically liking you he'd probably be more afraid of scaring you away with such obvious moves. He'd be more likely to blush, be cautious and maybe even hesitate on his moves, thinking to himself "Dude you mess this up, and you're toast!"

Finally, my theory on kisses .... you can plan for a kiss, but expect it not to happen ... when you want to kiss someone it just seems that much more special and magical if it seems spontaneous. A true like spark of emotion. So you can say to yourself something like: "If the mood is right, and when the moment is there, I'll know and i'll give him a kiss."

Answer 5

not so hard, if he is shy, then his propably shy thinking that u are the one who supposed to be shy, try to prevent moments of silence, ask something and escalate a subject from there.
ask him what's his current subjects, start talkin about one and so on. try to be funny. if u keep laphing and makin jokes, it will be so much easier for both of u.

kissing him the first time u r alone with him is not a good idea,
both of u should date for a while and love before u kiss, otherwise he will always try to get u alone and kiss u, he will also start trying to touch u soon after, basickl the whole relation ship will be abusin, he will use u as much as possible until u break up or somthin.

any way, kissing a guy at the end of the date, or 3/4 the date is easy, just lean to him and kiss him. he will not refuse, or try to prevent such a thing, he propably think of a way to kiss u as u read this, lol.

Answer 6

well after u guys have been talking 4 a while start getting into more personal stuff. ask him if he likes anyone or if he has a girlfriend. if he says he has one, (not trying 2 burst ur bubble!) just stay as being chat buds. but if he doesn't have a girlfriend
you should wait a minute and then sit down on the shore and try 2 hold his hand. then ask him if he likes 1st minute surprises and there u go. right smack on the lips. hope it works 4 u it worked 4 me, (only it wasn't on the beach.)

Answer 7

So, what is the problem? If you want to kiss him, kiss him. By the way, why would you suggest something if you don't know what it means? What did you mean by it when you suggested it? Why don't you talk about what "becoming closer" means?

Answer 8

sure go ahead n kiss him
i suppose if a guy tried to kiss a girl, then there could be a chance she'd refuse, but a girl tryin 2 kiss a guy, that sumink else lol. us guys don care n would like u girls 2 kiss us lol, unless u really that bad lookin or hav dental problems lmao

Answer 9

first of all, u need to be careful because u guys only met on myspace. for all u know he could be a killer or rapist, but anyway if u guys really llke each other, take it slow and just go with the flow

Answer 10

just go with the flow. you'll no when the time is right. as far as convo goes, begin with interest and hobbies, likes and dislikes and things will just flow from there. just make sure that b4 u kiss u have a better idea if he likes u or not.