Hi there. I have a big problem with a boy at my school who is totally perverted. He always stares at me in a really creepy way and when he gets close enough he actually squeezes my breasts! He doesn't even stare at my face but at my chest and I'm only 13. I need your advice, boys and girls please!!!!
2007-11-20 06:23:15 · 52 answers · asked by Sophie X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 14, and I know what it's like, I also have a really perverted guy at my school. One time, during a drama club rehearsal, the lights had to go down for the play we were doing, but there was still some light enough for us to be able to walk around without walking into stuff, and he pretended that he "couldn't see" and thrust his arms out and started squeezing the air, looking for breasts to squeeze. Look him in the eyes next time he gets close, and say very firmly, "Stop staring at my breasts and don't touch me anymore. I'm sick of it and it's perverted." If he doesn't stop, you should definitely tell a teacher, because he may be the type of guy that won't stop unless authoritive measures are taken. Unlike what everyone else who's answered before me is saying, I don't think it's necessary to start running to a teacher/parent/responsible adult and "telling on him" as a first step to make him stop, it should only be your second option if he continues to touch you like that. Yes, it's technically sexual harassment, but come on, is it really unexpected of the average hormonal teen boy? What can we say? Some guys get perverted, it's all caused by hormones and poor judgment.
2007-11-20 06:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first off, be straight up with him.
"my face is up here"
is a good line that will get a young boys attention.
ask him if he is staring at our breasts and he is likely to be embarrassed enough to stop.
if not, and you feel violated by this tell him that you think it is uncalled for and inappropriate that he looks at you like that and you do like it please stop.
if this doesnt stop him, you may have to talk to a trusted adult who also knows the kid. especially if this boy is older than you you need to let him know you are not going to stand for this. if you let him contine with this, it will only get worse. if there really is no stopping him and he touchs you in any way that makes you uncomfortable, you could have him taken to court for sexual harrassment; a serious crime and you could possibly get a restraining order if needed.
2007-11-20 06:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sophie! Are you afraid of this guy? Why on earth would you allow him to TOUCH you never mind what he is Doing??
Either take some self-defense classes (FAST) and send him flying on his *** or get some of your **boy-Friends** to deal with it.
Got a football team???
The trouble with *telling* is that teachers often
(a) take too long b4 REAL harm is done
or/and (b) blow you off.
Is this guy a *known* creepster around the school?
You could also tell your DAD - who, depending on your relationship, would set him up straight in a hurry.
Whatever you do - DO NOT let this escalate - you don't know what is on this jerks mind - are you afraid he may try to rape you?
2007-11-20 06:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For anybody to squeeze your breasts is sexual assault! It is illegal and you need to notify your school immediatel! If it happens again notify the police!
You don't deserve to be treated like this, and this boy could be headed for being a sexual predator and/or rapist! If you don't ask some other poor girl may get assaulted by him.
2007-11-20 06:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah if ur witty approximately it. occasion is one in each and every of my acquaintances reported shes gonna shoot me in my face cus i pissed her off so i advised her i'm going to shoot her interior the face in a perverted voice and concept that grew to become into humorous. yet then lower back im no longer a undesirable boy
2016-10-17 12:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a trusted teacher or counsellor at school and tell her this boy is actually touching you. Tell your family if you can.
If they don't do anything for you-like throw him out of school or put him in detention-then tell your parents to bring suit against the school for not protecting you.
NO ONE should ever touch you, without your permission. He is actually breaking the law.
Please take care of this-next he could actually rape you.
DO NOT DO THIS if you are making this up!
Do not hit him or YOU will be thrown out of school for fighting.
2007-11-20 06:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kick him in the you know where... the next time he touches you. I did this when I was around 10 years old. The boy never came near me again. Consider it self defence he has no right to put his hands on U!!
2007-11-20 06:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats sexual assault, and you need to get help, from a teacher or a parent or the nurse....thats not okay, and its beyond just being perverted if hes touching you. talk to a trusted adult, and let us know how it works out. i'll pray for you to be strong enough to get help to end this.
2007-11-20 06:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he touched you. He has just crossed the line. You need to tell a teacher you trust. They will get this boy to stop what he is doing. Please step forward on this he may be doing this to other girls as well.
2007-11-20 06:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by looking4answers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i wouldn't call him perverted, i would say he is very interested in you so to speak, just let him know that you feel uncomfortable with what he is doing, and say your not interested in him.
To me it sounds like he is going through puberty and is starting to take notice of girls, if he still persists let a teacher know and they should sort it out.
Good Luck!
2007-11-20 06:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kayleigh 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋