My ex bf said that he likes me again after he just got done "loving" my bff. It is so crazy. I just want him to stay away. I don't want him to come back after what that jerk has done to me! He just likes to create drama. I want to tell him the truth about how I feel about him without hurting his feelings. I guess it would me ok if we were just friends but I just want to leave it at that. I do not want a bf right now. I want to take a break from boys and just focus on school. What do I say to him?
2007-11-20 06:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Muffin ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and hurt his feelings. Sometimes the truth hurts. Too bad for him!
2007-11-20 06:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by rojo_jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest, don't lie. You can find words that are simple and to the point. You need to let him know that you do not want all that drama in your life and that school is the only thing you want to focus on. If he wants you back, he's going to be hurt anyway knowing that you don't want him back. But I also think that if you decide to just be friends, you need to keep your distance. Because always seeing you or talking to you could keep him hanging around the way you do not want.
2007-11-20 14:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the truth without drama? Just say, Listen...your choices hurt me in the past and I'm not willing to risk that you would hurt me like that again. Then say you are sorry that it didnt work out the first time.
2007-11-20 14:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by mikala m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes hurting someones feelings is the only way to get ur point across. but it ur not that kind of person jus tell him u dont want to be with him anymore at all and that ur taking a break rite now an u dont want to be in a relationship anyway. an ur ex boyfriend went with ur best friend????? u may just need to drop him all together
2007-11-20 14:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Princess_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why would u not want to hurt his feelings hello what did he do to u second u dont need him as a freind neither just let him knw that after all that yall have been threw u feel no need to restart anything u want to leave it how it has been and not be anything so u can focus on what is important
2007-11-20 14:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by purple eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worried about hurting his feelings after what he did to you? Come on tell him you've moved on and to leave you alone. Trust me you can not be friends with your ex's!!!
Unless you like drama too. Move on look for fresh meat :)
2007-11-20 14:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet.Milf3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told us; that you're trying to focus on school right now and you're not interested in a boyfriend but wouldn't mind being friends with him... and leave it at that. Short, sweet, and simple.
2007-11-20 14:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know tell him that u feel that it is wrong for him to go to you than your friend and back that it isnt right ok... u know maybe you like him a little but it would hurt your friend im guessing and he is your ex for a reason.
2007-11-21 10:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Chick777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything to him. Just stay away from him. He isnt your friend. Everytime you speak to him he will use what you said to try and manipulate you so just steer clear of him.
2007-11-20 14:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so tell him you dont want a bf now. and dont get with him after he went from you to you bff. how old are you?
2007-11-20 14:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋