guys, would you like it if your girlfriend wrote you a letter?

Question

My boyfriend suffers from depression/emotional issues and he psushes me away every and now and then. when I try to talk to him while he's feeling like this-its like im talking to a brick wall and then i get frustarted. but when hes feeling okay he tells me that hes sorry and thinks about me all the time while hes depressed. So last night I wrote a letter to him telling him everything how I feel (since its so hard to talk to him write now). I already gave it to him so theres nothing I can do now. But do you think most guys would like that? Or does it seem kind of weird and immature?

we're both 19 by the way.

Answer 1

i leave my boyfriend a note every morning before i leave for work so he can read it when he wakes up. just in case he forgets how much he means to me. i think it is a great idea =)

Answer 2

I love writing letters to my boyfriends. It's a good way to express yourself when you can't say it outright. Writing your feelings down can be easier. most boyfriends I've had have liked it

Answer 3

some people say its better to write ur feelings down because its easier to express the way u feel. that is something ur boyfriend should try. i dont think hell get to upset about it if he isnt talking right now. but good luck

Answer 4

Sometimes it is easier to write what you feel. I wouldn't mind getting a letter if my wife felt she couldn't talk to me about something. It's better than just leaving things unsaid.

Answer 5

Rebecca R, Sweety that is a very thoughtful and romantic gesture ! It may help tear down those defensive walls your guy puts up ! Bless you dear very mature thing to do !

Answer 6

I wrote a lot of letters when I was a teenager to girls, but this was before emails.

Answer 7

i gave my boyfriend cards for no reason and wrote a letter like in them and i guess he thought they were sweet