2007-11-20 07:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am i a bad person because i'm considering having an affair with an older married man? think is that it doesn't bother me at all... i'm looking foreward to it. just haven't found him yet!
2007-11-20 07:48:31 · update #1
not at all just keep it secret and to yourself.
done it many times
2007-11-20 08:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now I'm not calling you a bad person , but what if this married man had kids how would it feel to know daddy cheated on mommy with some young lady , i would feel like crap . You cant go around being a home wrecker , that's a bit wrong , and people who think its okay is wrong to , its not very hard to find someone single - its more of a challenge to ruin families . Wow . that's really kind of messed up .
2007-11-20 15:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what are your principle.. but if you are going to destroy a family by having an affair with a married guy.. then i guess something is wrong with you! Look for a single older man!
2007-11-20 15:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by <<< ♥ <<< 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well by persuing this idea of yours and considering the fact that he will be a married man i'd say you are being rather selfish....self interest is what drives us but do not let your acts of selfinterest be those of selfishness...dont let your self interest harm/hurt another individual....
so the idea of havin an affair with a married man..if this is the principle well then yes it is wrong.
2007-11-20 15:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Viran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a bad person. It's not right to be sleeping with another man while being married. It is considered to be adultery/ infedelity. I don't remember which one for sure, but it's still bad and not right.
2007-11-20 15:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by bluevr6streak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Go for it. KARMA will always come back to bite you. So when you hit about 30 and your looks have begun to fade, its going to happen to you too. Your man won't be less attractive and you will. It's everywhere. Look around you. Or work to make yourself a goodhearted person with a good sound quality and character to yourself and maybe you'll find somebody who won't look at you one day and say "ugh, I hope she doesn't ask for sex today".
2007-11-20 15:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your principles are your own, so no, they're not wrong. What is right for you may not be right for someone else, so don't listen to all the people saying "omg, ur baaaaaad".
2007-11-22 16:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm hmmmhmmmm (grinning) an older married guy like myself could really teach your young *** a thing or two.
2007-11-20 15:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by huckleberryjoe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't know you need to be more specific. What exactly is going on?
2007-11-20 15:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by LORI L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this, then I am going to assume yes.
2007-11-20 15:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Just Tryin' to Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋