guys answer too..would u rather a girl act really desperate or a girl that is playing hard to get? and why?..saying neither is not an option.
2007-11-20 07:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like a guy who doesn't play mind games, & that's the kind of guy I married. He's as sweet, loving, thoughtful, & kind as can be & I am so glad I found him!
2007-11-20 07:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Emily & her mommy love Da Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that acts desperate can't help it. A guy playing hard to get already has a girl pursuing him.
I'm not one for pursuit. If a girl plays hard to get, it just looks like lack of interest to me. If a girl acts desperate but also acts like she likes any and every guy, I don't think I could trust her.
2007-11-20 07:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get because the chase is worth it in the end. Desperate guys are just annoying and a BIG turn off.
2016-05-24 08:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a guy that is playing either role. I would want a guy that is being himself and relaxed. Playing hard to get would make me think he isn't interested and I would look elsewhere. Being desperate is not attractive. I want a guy with his own mind and friends. If you like someone, let them know. But don't be fatal attraction.
2007-11-20 07:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a girl playing hard to get is more interesting because it increases the fun of the chase and it's more challenging. If a girl was easy to get then there would be no point in trying to pursue her and it wouldn't be any fun because then I wouldalready have her.
2007-11-20 07:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by ZACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when a guy is obvious it's eaasier for you to make a move and he probably wouuldn't be threatened if you were super tough.Plus desperate boys are way romantic thn guys who play hard to get.guys who play hard rto get are pretty conceited in my opinion.
2007-11-20 07:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by ariellebelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I think a guy who plays hard to get is more interesting..
2007-11-20 07:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is the only option.
Because I would never ever go for either.
2007-11-20 07:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people would like a mix.
Sending good signals...but then withdrawing.
It creates attraction I guess.
2007-11-20 07:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
welp, neither is my answer. one is cloying and annoying, even if you feel sympathy for them, the other is an ******.
2007-11-20 07:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋