theres this guy that i like and hes very shy when talking to girls that he likes (he said so).. besides his (gal) friends.. anyway, i always start the converstion whenevr we are both Online.. for 8 consecutive days.. we chatted.. i always say hi first.. but the good thing is, he always reply (fast).. eventhough his doing something.. and this day (9th day) i said hi to him first as usual.. and waited for him to start a converstion.. but he never did..
does this mean he doesnt like me?.. can he overcome his shyness?.. or no?.. would he say hi to me someday?.. or would that be really hard for him?
2007-11-20 03:15:44 · 4 answers · asked by mile_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as a shy guy myself it takes awhile to overcome my shyness with each girl i am attracted to, just because he diddnt respond as fast or did not converse with you dosent mean he doesnt like you...most likely he does still....plus shy guys are not players..so they hold on to someone they like and will not let go...chances are he still likes you and is still interested dont worry. :)
2007-11-20 05:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm intrigued, what do you recommend he's shy approximately his physique? Did you attempt to the touch him and he form of pulled away? He would desire to be ticklish. I actual have the sensation that he's merely green and a prior due bloomer such as you stated. all of us take excitement in having somebody adore/appreciate us, and that i'm advantageous which you do too; yet, do not enable a dismal era on your own life rigidity you to him or all people which you extremely are not fascinated in. bear in concepts, nevertheless water runs deep. This courting may be a staggering experience; yet, pay attention, it may additionally recommend difficulty down the line b/c he would desire to develop into too possessive & risky to himself, yet another guy or woman or you in case you start to shrink back. flow with your gut feeling. in case you pay attention to that little inner voice it is going to enable you to are making judgements. You asked approximately reassuring him. Reassure your self first. tell him which you have an interest and which you're taking at some point at a time, exploring and feeling your way alongside in the courting. it extremely is the reality and all all people can ask of yet another. He can in no way accuse you of mendacity to him later in case you do desire to decrease back off. bear in concepts, marriage would desire to final something of your life so be advantageous approximately what you're doing. Does he ever make you snort? life would get fairly uninteresting if he would not. You sound like an sensible lady and that i'm hoping issues artwork out for you. in my opinion, i like a guy with self assurance; maximum men like women folk with self assurance too.
2016-10-02 02:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shiness is a consequence of being insecure. So understand this guy doesn't know what he wants, nor does he know what he is worth. So its on you, help him see this and he'll get more confident with you, pretend he knows these things, and watch him become shier, and shier over time. So help him, to be honest, talk honest, and see honest himself and you, and who knows what might happen....
2007-11-20 03:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a shy guy that is always shy around everyone.
2007-11-21 14:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋