ive been with my boyfrined for like 5 years on and off and i have cheated on him like a bunch of times i already lost count but the one thing i want to know is if i can stop ...i try to but its hard you know i get tired of him and sometimes i dont find him attractive and i just wish he was different
2007-11-20 03:23:10 · 22 answers · asked by sexy_1rma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont listen to anyone ! if you like having sex with other people than you go for it
2007-11-20 04:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by c j 10" 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
for lack of a better phrase, you need to man up!
stop using this guy. he's your security blanket. problem is he's a person, not an object. you're treating him like one. you don't care about his feelings or you wouldn't even be asking this question. obviously he is a safe bet for you. stop selling both of you short and get yourself out there. stop hedging w/this guy you don't really want and be responsible for how you make others feel. he isn't different and he will not be. he shouldn't have to be. if you do not accept whatever flaws he has then find someone whose flaws you do accept. if you're not ready to do that, then be honest and tell whoever you decide to spend time around that you are not ready to be in a committed relationship. like i said at first...
MAN UP!
2007-11-20 03:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by DF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then leave him their is no sense in making u feel bad and wasting both of ur time and his time for all u know he probadly knows that u cheated no matter how good u think u are at it but he holds on to u cuz he loves u any other guywould slap u and called u a hoe but u need to stop seeing him and if u sayits cuz u love him them thats a lie cuz u got it wrong that what ur doing isnt love its disrepectfull and a waste of time and its just gonna keep on brothering if u keep at it with him and if u find one esle it might come back to u
2007-11-20 03:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have some self esteem issues that you need to work out. You should try counseling..if you can not afford it, and your health insurance does not cover it there are many other free options. Once you deal with your issues you will be able to have a healthy happpy respectful relationship.
2007-11-20 03:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can accept yourself as you are, so you can stop the internal war that only leads to guilt, remorse and morbid reflection.
You can STOP making commitments with other people. Casual dating is an acceptable option.
Stay safe.
Peace.
2007-11-20 03:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wish he was different, then he is not the right man for you. Let him go.
Also, as a tip for the long run: it is best not to try and change people and wish they are different. You ahve to accept them as you are. And if you don't like them for who they are, then it is perfectly fine to break up with them. Let them find someone who will love them for who they are. (That is wht we all want right? Someone to love us for who we really are?)
2007-11-20 03:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Annonymous J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have the wondering eye huh....
Ask yourself what makes you need to cheat?
Are you insecure?
Do you need acceptance from men?
Do you have low self esteem?
Do you crave attention?
Are you bipolar?
Simply be honest with yourself, to find out what makes you have to cheat....
Good luck.
2007-11-20 04:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are meant to be single. maybe you are one of those. does he cheat on you?
if you get tired of him and wish he was different you need to break up and move on.
you aren't being fair to him.
2007-11-20 03:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Doodles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's not a bad thing
your just not ready for a serious realtionship just dont have a main boy friend and no one get hurt.
2007-11-20 04:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe you would do this to him. my boyfriend of two and half years jus' played me and had sex with another girl ONE time, his ex and i will never be with him again. i cant believe he has stuck around thro ur bullshit, girl u obviously don't love him, u dont think he looks good, baby hes not the one for you, you've GOT to move on & stop hurting him and ur mind. jus let it go, please girl.
2007-11-20 04:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by CRYSTAL N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be to break it off with him and just be single so you can play the field without hurting someone. don't commit to a relationship unless you know you are ready to.
2007-11-20 03:28:50 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋