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I love my friend to bits but I dont know if she deserves that title.
2007-11-20 03:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Realize you have horrible taste in friends. No offense, but for you to call this woman a friend and for her to have the gumption, the tenacity, the drive, to constantly point out how fat you are? You have the problem, not here. You need to work on finding out what good, genuine, deep people are and stay away from the shallow hearts, no offense. But there will always be shallow, light, indifferent, neglectful people, its up to you to shield yourself....
2007-11-20 03:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your should try and talk to her. Tell her how much it hurts when you hear your best friend saying those things. Tell her that you need her to support you and help you through this time and the way she is going about it isn't helping. Maybe she thinks by saying those things that it will motivate you. She is going about it all wrong... obviously... but maybe she doesn't know that.. just talk to her and tell her what's on your mind.
Good Luck!
Are you working out at all? If not, do something. Nothing big. But start by walking a little everyday and some excercises.
Keep working hard and pushing through!
You CAN do it!
2007-11-20 11:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by captivated* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋