ok here it goes . . . my best guy friend in the whole word told me he liked me and asked me out over IM. . . i told him that i didnt want to hurt my best friend (girl)'s feeling because they went out previously, but she has another bf now
ive liked his brother for a while and he recently admited he liked me 2. . . i told my best guy friend that i did like him coz hes realy sensitive and i didnt want to hurt him i also told him lest see what happens this week anyway. .. he kissed me this afternoon and my best friend (girl) saw and even though she said its fine i still feel like i cheated on his brother and hurt my friend (girl) . . . i wana tell him we have to end this but i dont know how. . .any advice pls
also can i tell this to him over IM considering he asked me out over IM?
thanx
2007-11-20 02:59:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore him and his phone calls! avoid him as much as possible
2007-11-20 03:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by nicki_viau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be adult about the situation. tell him that you like this other guy and it's too weird because you feel like the relationship would hurt other people and that's not what your out to do. i would say no to telling him over an IM but i broke up with someone threw a text message and then changed my cell number so do whatever works best for you and hopefully ya'll can all remain friends.
2007-11-20 11:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, you need to follow your feelings first. Stop thinking about what other people might feel like. Your best freind already has another man which means she moved on. You are at total liberty to go out with her ex. Just dont brag about the stuff you guys do to her. that might spark a bit of jealousy which is normal. Give him a chance but also find out if he really likes you or just hooking up with you to make your best friend jealous.
2007-11-20 11:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you don't want to hurt your other friends and by going out with him you feel like you are. let him know that you're a good friend who would never hurt anyone and maybe he'll respect that. you could IM him. he did
2007-11-20 11:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by umhum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda complicated situation you're in.
follow your heart... you best friend(girl) has a bf...
you also need to have a bf...
so i dont think that she would mind that you're goin out with your guy friend (though they once dated)
you deserve to be happy too..
n stop considering others feelings over yours.
your best guy frnd... could be your Mr Right... cuz he knows you better than anyone else, right.
2007-11-20 11:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to tell him that you don't feel that way about him. That he's your best friend and you don't want to lose that. I also think you should forget about his brother, because you'll end up having one less friend.
2007-11-20 11:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kinda let the chips fall where they may, and don't say anything,
I mean you never really commited to him
Just gently pull away this way you can remain friends
M
2007-11-20 11:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Tell him how you fell face to face if he is really your friend he'll understand. Although you shouldn't have lied to save his feelings. Also he may be hurt but he'll get over it.
2007-11-20 11:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by chillin in the U.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your in a love triangle end it before someone gets hurt!
2007-11-20 11:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Denise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine if you like him.
Your best girlfriend can handle it.
You're not cheating on his brother.
You're not even dating him,
are you?
Just make sure you treat this guy right
if you keep him around.
2007-11-20 11:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love him as a friend, but you don't want to hurt your friendship by starting a relationship.... and tell him the truth that you don't feel strongly for him as more than a friend... it may hurt, but it's better to know than not know!
2007-11-20 11:03:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋