Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

i want my boyfriend to move in with me. i am still living at home till i finish school. i have asked my mum and dad and they said they will think about it. how can i make them say yes?

2007-11-16 14:49:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my now ex-girlfriend broke up on wenseday and then on thursday some other dude asked her out should i be a little pissed off
and suicidal not to make myself sound physco

2007-11-16 14:47:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know,,,, in the bed?
or i guess in the park?
when where, position, how?
details.
my fave is in the parents bed!

2007-11-16 14:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by babygotback 1 in Singles & Dating

We spoke on the adoption but, I didn't feel she should. we not only can't afford to, she has to girls from a previous relationship and a daughter (1yr) with me. I love her alot, but I dont find it fair to the immediate family. We no longer have time for anything.

2007-11-16 14:47:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why cant i find a guy that likes me for me and not my body? does anyone understand this? i dont get it at all..

2007-11-16 14:45:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin who is having a hard time supporting her family right now. She and her husband are both working but their bills are starting to pile up. Does anyone know about any government assistance programs to help pay bills?

2007-11-16 14:44:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do married people think that unmarried people cant understand the problems they have??

2007-11-16 14:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by peterson51785 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have this investor who is married; his a foreigner by the way - his wife is is in their country but he have a girlfriend here and he brings her when he comes to our office, the girlfriend knows that he's married but is not with his wife anymore - according to the GF - for us all we know is his still committed to his legal wife. this situation has make us uncomfortable because we dont want to be caught in the middle if in case his legal wife will visit our office. He doesnt talk much regarding his relationship and personal matter - we respect that however we just dont like the idea of him bringing his "mistress" in our business place, we also believe that this brings bad luck to the business. I want to hear other people's opinion regarding this - are just exagerated and narrow-minded on our way of thinking, not to mention conservative? also, as a woman (me) im beginning not to like her, coz she love to talk about herself all the time and i think she's a hypocrite and fake,

2007-11-16 14:43:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some tips that might make her get to know the real me. And maybe try to get in to a relationship.

2007-11-16 14:42:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just broke up with me after about 2 years. he went off to highschool, and he said his feelings for me just faded away. im going to his highschool next fall. do u think his feelings for me will come back? he loved me so much and i still love him! but he doesn't even LIKE me anymore. at highschool he is busy with homework and he was on the football team and he made a lot of new friends. i understand that that can be overwhelming. this is like a really really short summery of everything, but i just want to hear what u guys think.

2007-11-16 14:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend thinks i should ask this guy out. i really like him. i think he likes me or at least used to.
he let me wear his jacket, sat with me on the bus, wanted me to watch videos on his ipod with him, and always smiled at me and stuff like that
but idk tennis is over so we dont talk as much anymore.
we still talk on msn
we say hi and smile when we see eavh other in the hallways
my friend thinks he still likes me and i should ask him out.
but what if he says no?

2007-11-16 14:41:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents dont do ANYTHING for the Holidays! Nothing! I sit around being loneley watching my neighbors open presents of Christmas morning, how they make a roats turkey and invite friends and family to eat and have fun....we are kind of Jewish, so we do "celebrate" Hannukah, but all we do is light a menorah. Then my parents expect hords of gifts from me, like 200 dollars worth of my babysitting money. I dont have a cell phone, ANY friends because I'm homeschooled, I have to buy my own clothes, computer, bedding, chairs, etc and I'm only 15. I used to use my birthday money, like 40 dollars a year to buy clothes from the salvation army, because my parents didnt want to buy me any clothes, let alone toys. I'm MISERABLE and lonely, and when I tell some people I rarely meet they don't understand because they have GREAT lives and think i;m a freak! And they don't understand how I can;t go to their birthday parties or dances at their schools because my parents thinks that (continues below)

2007-11-16 14:39:59 · 2 answers · asked by -:-vInTaGe PaSsIon-:- 6 in Friends

The thing is my wife knows that girl and she's 1 of the friend in the group. Will this turn out to be a fight between friends or what?

2007-11-16 14:39:53 · 12 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2 in Friends

Hi,
Im 16 and she's 15
Im sure were going to get married. We love each other so much and she never wants to leave me nor do I her.

Well Im worried because we have such a long time before we get married. I want to get married at least 20 or 21

I dont want our relationship to get boring. What things should we do to keep that "spark of love" up. Should we travel around the U.S. or whatever?
Btw I dont want to have pre-marital sex because I want to save it on that special day. So anything will help :)

2007-11-16 14:39:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Will you marry a poor man?

2007-11-16 14:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i went on a vacation, a ski vacation, to save our marriage. unfortunately, one night, i went to get a massage, and when i came back, i found my husband in bed with one of the male hotel workers. i didnt know what to think. after pondering the thought of having a 3 some that night, i realized that this occasion may not be the healthiest for our relationship. My husband has kept in contact with this man since then, and he often visits on weekends. what do you think i should do? should i get a divorce, get serious counseling, or welcome my husbands new lover into our life. our children seem to enjoy his company and i think he is quite handsome.

i need help!

2007-11-16 14:38:54 · 31 answers · asked by watermeloniegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so its friday alone here, because of my so called "best friends"
they basically just left me out. sorry if i sound like i'm complaining but i'm just upset, not only did they lie to my face about hanging out. they had to make up a bad excuse for it. I'm sick of their lies, and espeically one of them only caring about herself. She is my best friend and we have so much fun together, but she knows nothing about me because she is constantly talking about herself. She only does something when it works to her favor, if plans don't work out with us, she'll find someone else to hang out with and not even care or ask about how i feel. Idk what do to? Its so confusing, but thats what high school is about.

2007-11-16 14:38:21 · 28 answers · asked by EmCee 4 in Friends

Lately, my brother has been making my mother so stressed out. My mother has a small case of depression, and my bro isn't helping things out. It has become a part of his habit to tell her everyday that he hates her and wishes she would die. If she doesn't get what he wants, he just explodes and starts saying cruel things. He also gets angry if my mother doesn't make him something to eat-something as simple as a sandwhich, waffles, or even cereal. My mother always gives in, even when I tell her not to. She spoils him with mcdonalds once a week, thus resulting in him getting mad when she doesn't buy him it. Then there are times when my mother takes her sleeping pills (with her beer) and he argues with her about something. Never disturb her when she's drunk or takes her pills. Beer makes her overly emotional and pills makes her umm... Sleepy and wishing to be unbothered? What can I do with this situation. My mother doesn't want to listen to my words. She just walks out. :-(

2007-11-16 14:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ra Miew 2 in Family

2007-11-16 14:37:35 · 16 answers · asked by knight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 14:37:27 · 26 answers · asked by godslove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23 & when I moved in with my bf I found out some stuff about him that was... interesting?. I found out he was looking at porn (vids&photos) everyday on mulitple websites. I confronted him about it and he said that he didn't have a problem but he would tone it down a bit for me. I understand he's a guy and is going to do guy things, but I thought every single day was a bit much! It stopped for a bit, then started back up & i just let it go.

Recently, I started a new job and it's been very demanding. I told him last month that I really didn't want to have sex all that much - I'm not on the pill, and I really am not ready to get pregnant right now. We still are intimate in other ways. Well, he is still looking at porn everyday, but i also found websites for strip clubs in our city. He admitted to going to a strip club by himself while i was sleeping- and was planning on doing it again. This isn't the first time he's gone to a strip club by himself. I'm kinda freaked out!

2007-11-16 14:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 14:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bestfriend hardly talk anymore and now she is best friends with someone else...everyday of high school is awkward for me now because i feel lke a loser! i dont have any bestfriends anymore because my other bestfriend has a new bestfriend also....and it makes me sad when i see them having fun and being happy....i havent hung out with anyone in like 2 months!my mom even noticed. i dont like this feeling. i get depressed about it. can you help me please?~!

2007-11-16 14:33:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What makes the difference between a "keeper" and a loser?

2007-11-16 14:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Silva 6 in Singles & Dating

I already have 6 from 3 different women and pay over half of my income towards child support. I've never fallen behind on my payments and share custody with all my kids' moms. It just happened when I was young and dumb back high school. I had all 6 of them before I turned 19. Between college and supporting my kids, I have worked my butt off and barely had any time to spend with them. My youngest is 7 and I missed all her best years growing up. I really don't want this. I think she's got it in her head to keep it. I used condoms I swear. And she said she was on the pill but I don't believe her. I really need her to see my point of view. She's a Catholic. I suspect she thinks I'll marry her if she keeps it. I have no such plans.

2007-11-16 14:32:40 · 30 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and they both die and leave you their child, what do you do? should i love this child as my own? or put him up for adoption, as he is not mine, or do i keep him and tell everyone he's not mine, and that i don't love him?

please help, my parents dont know i have a child. they are very christian and would not approve. i am going home for christmas, and it would be a lot easier if i knew what to do about this "thing" that was so nicely dumped on my lap

2007-11-16 14:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by watermeloniegirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so theres this guy i have liked for a looooooooooong time and he likes me back. but as soon as i figured out he liked me i stoped likeing him i think..... im not sure does anyone have a logical explanation like oh this is normal your just blah blah blah please help im sooooo confused........

2007-11-16 14:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by jkgirl<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband in January because his drinking was out of control. I left him so he could get better for our family.(his drinking was making my daughters upset) I was not leaving him so we could get a divorce. I could not let my kids live that life anymore. He told me he could not get sober with me in the house with him. To make a long story short he ended up finding another girl and now she is having his baby in Febuary. I was so crushed when I found this out a few months ago but for some reason it still bothers me. Why? I am so over him because he truly showed me and our girls how much he cared. We are getting a divorce and I can't wait to get it started. I guess my question is,why do I still waste so much of my energy on him? Is there anything I can do to make it go away? I guess it hurts so much because I struggle everyday and he has it made with this new girl. They are getting ready for this new baby but he still has two daughters that he doesn't see enough. Thanks!

2007-11-16 14:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here it goes...
I was checking on my hubby's question like he asked me to and well I then happen to noticed a question he answered and the name kinda looked like something by hubby would use and so I clicked on it and the question was very fa miler to mine and my husbands life's so I started to think maybe it was one of the other accounts he has on here because I know he has quit a few I am just not sure what they are and then I ran across more questions that were fa miler to our lives and then I knew ok this is defiantly him and then I ran across this question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjOuk7_mrLmofpe1XFPObfLty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070710161459AAgilZa

What would you think if you found out that your husband was asking a question like this because right now I am really upset should I approach him about this and if so how would you approach your husband?

2007-11-16 14:27:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you were in a strong happy marriage of over 12 years and your wife wanted to fufill a fantasy of me and another guy having sex with her at the same time and said she would be willing to let me have her and another woman at the same time would you do it?

2007-11-16 14:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce