me and my now ex-girlfriend broke up on wenseday and then on thursday some other dude asked her out should i be a little pissed off
and suicidal not to make myself sound physco
2007-11-16 14:47:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG ur suicidal?
that sux one day after?
wat'd she say?
2007-11-16 14:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by ツLuv~u~2ツ 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well did you break up with her because if you did then yes you have a reason to be pissed off but if she broke up with you thn do not get too pissed of..you should not get suicidal thats not a good thing to be and it could cause you to be really mad at yourself when you did not tell another person to ask her out.. maybe sit down for a little bit think about what went on in the relationship you had was there any problems about her not trusting you or something like that then go on with life and maybe ask out another girl and start off new but mayebe try to still be friends with your ex if it is possible..
hope this helps you
2007-11-16 14:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by surfhottie09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bud. Breaking up is hard to do. When my first boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after a long relationship I really did not know what to do with myself. I knew that there was more to life and that I would find a better dude, but it just did not seem realistic. It took me so long to get over it, and I'm still trying to keep myself from crying sometimes. I've gotten over it though. After a while I began to start seeing how much of a jerk he was. (Well, not a JERK, just somebody I did not want to be around). I began to get really mad at him and now I'm regretting getting so mad at him because now he won't talk to me.
Just try to separate yourself from her for a while. Not for forever, just for a while until you feel that you can look at her with another dude without wanting to hurt yourself. Doing that is never the answer. Human spirit is by far stronger than your emotions. You just got to tell yourself whenever you start to get sad to "stop".
But hey, crying isn't a sin. You may be sad for a while. It's perfectly normal for you to be sad about losing your girlfriend and then replacing you so quickly. She didn't deserve a loving soul like yours. Cry it all out. It's good for you.
Hope you start feelin' better soon. :) Remember that life is FULL of surprises! And if it makes you feel better. My exboyfriend is surrounded by girls and I haven't gotten one boyfriend since him in 8 months :P
2007-11-16 15:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your legitimately hurt. No you should not be pissed off just because another guy asked her out. If you liked her a lot then feeling SAD is more normal than feeling pissed. Being suicidal is extreme and no BROKEN relationship is worth losing your LIFE for. I say move on.
2007-11-16 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by i sharpen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest part is letting go. Ask yourself what cause the break up in the first place, then is it worth getting piss off at some dude. Maybe next just be more careful and caution...
2007-11-16 14:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by jolmata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not believe it right now but there will be someone else. I am 29 now, happily married and I look back at my 1st love at 15 and it is REALLY like another life.
The man I was in love with at 15 married someone else and I still see him in the grocery store! LOL I also went through a engagement, breakups and now I am really happily married. Really, give it time. There will be someone else. plus no one is worth feeling suicidal or depressed about. You have to love yourself!
One day you will look over at your wife [in my case my hubby], be 29 and smile when you look back.
One day you will be telling your 15 year old how to get past his or her 1st break up:)
Hang in there!!
2007-11-16 14:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're a little pissed off. That's normal. Try to quit it, she isn't your girlfriend anymore, but it's normal.
And stop being so melodramatic. This isn't something to get suicidal over, it never would have lasted. You're 15, for God's sake.
2007-11-16 14:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well lets not go all suicidal thats not cool. but going through a break up is not easy. you definatly need someone to talk to..and im always here so ya...but anyways you should be a little pissed off cuz its normal after just a day. but just dont go and do something with someone that you will regret one day ok?
2007-11-16 14:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's ok to be a little jealous at first. You have to understand though that you guys broke up so you need to let her go. I wouldn't start dating other guys that fast if I was in her position, but whatever. Trust me, right now I'm dealing with a boyfriend who cares more about Halo and Guitar hero than me, so it's ok for you to be a little pissed. :)
2007-11-16 14:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sapphire Owl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're not sounding "physco". Its okay to be mad, but please do not even think about suicide. You will have many new loves and breakups before you find the true love. Let her go, enjoy the time you will have meeting interesting new girls along the way!
2007-11-16 14:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bit nautral to feel that way. But remember that you are only 15 and you will feel this way many times before you settle down with the love of you life. Dnt worry...be calm, dnt be angry with her. Keep your self busy and move on. you will find someone else and you might even be happier....
2007-11-16 14:53:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋