Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

I am 18 years old. I have already done stuff with my girlfriend and she had no objections, but we never have time alone. I mean yeah we get to go to dinner and a movie or something like that, but I mean we never have "alone" time. How do I bring up the subject that I want to do stuff? help please

2007-11-16 17:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 17:33:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what was the age difference?

2007-11-16 17:30:59 · 6 answers · asked by darcyaf1 3 in Singles & Dating

. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way


she is not shy at all. like she talks around me just not to me

2007-11-16 17:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so there is this boy at my school that I've always thought he was kinda cute since I started going there last year, but I've never really talked to him and never really payed attention to anything b/c I just figured I wasn't good enough for him. Well i'm in a group w/ him this year and I noticed him looking at me, but I just thought it was me being paranoid b/c i'm very self concious, but one day I was sitting by a friend and she was like man he's staring at you and i had never said anything to her..she noticed it on her own and well I didn't think anything about that and another day one of my other friends noticed him staring and now i've noticed him staring at me a lot and everytime i look at him he'll just smile real big and the other day I was walking in a buliding and he came out of a room and he kinda ran into each other and his face turned really red and he was like uhhhh and couldn't really say much...what do you think this means?

2007-11-16 17:29:07 · 4 answers · asked by Candy2007 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex-wife for 4 1/2 years and she left me about 3 months ago for another man. Well, since then, all she has done is berate me and tell me that all the things she said when we were together (how she loved me, how sexy I was, etc.) were all lies. All she can do is push me away and try to hurt me but when something in her life goes wrong she calls me because she knows that I'm her shoulder to cry on. I will say all the things she wants to hear because thats just how I am with her. I miss her deeply and have recently learned that she expressed that she wanted me back to a mutual friend of ours but everytime I talk to her, she wants nothing to do with me.

Am I crazy to want her back?
Am I crazy for thinking that she will and things will go back to the way they were?

Am I crazy?

2007-11-16 17:28:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have I think qiute a bit of guys that like me, so I don't really have that issue. It's just that a lot of the guys at my school will start to get to know me and we will become like really good friends and then the same thing happens everytime...he will admite he likes me, whether he tells me in a note, in person, using a friend. And then he won't follow through by asking me out. I don't know if it is just because they think of me as more of a friend or what. I have even had guys like semi ask me out in notes and then decide not to give me it. Uhhh, its frusterateing, and depressing.

2007-11-16 17:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by TheLuckyOne 2 in Singles & Dating

Today I went outside and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...

2007-11-16 17:27:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 17:26:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have been on and off cus i have problems with him, like not comforting me when i'm sad or mad. i told him if he wanted to be with me, he has got to change, but if he doesn't i want to break up. this is the last chance i'm going to give him, and if he screws it up, i do not want to be friends or bf/gf ever again, he is not allowed to talk to me ever,and he is to get out of my life for good!?

2007-11-16 17:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the memories flood back, and I am often speechless. I still care for this girl, despite the fact that she broke up with me because she was "stessed." Stressed or not, I feel like there must have been another reason, despite the fact that we never argued or anything. Well, we barely spoke since that day, but I still see her occasionally. When I do, I get nervous. I want to tell her "I don't know what happened between us, but whatever did, I still care about you." I feel like time is slipping away, but at the same time, I don't know if telling her that would be the right thing for me or her. It's been 2.5 months since the break up, and even though I've moved on in some ways, I still really miss this girl. We occasionally have small conversations, but that's it. We've gone from a couple to barely acquaintances, and it's killing me inside.

2007-11-16 17:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Singles & Dating

i m finding difficult 2 4get a gal 2 whom i really fell i n luv..
its now 3-4 yr gone..i unable 2 4get her ..due 2 dat i also involved in bad habbit,,but i survived from it...nd also it affected into my life nd studies..
give some serious answer.also .as i never propose her ..becoz.she is lil bit superior dan me..i done everthing 2 4get her.but doesnt wrk..plss help

2007-11-16 17:19:21 · 3 answers · asked by raj m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 17:18:10 · 4 answers · asked by canwedothisdaily 1 in Singles & Dating

i can't hold my boyfriends hand or kiss him and i think he's afriad to kiss me and hold my had

2007-11-16 17:18:03 · 2 answers · asked by i_luv_john 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I asked this question before but people took it the wrong way just agreeing that for the most part that they use Trojans, but didnt say which kind they use and trust - they have many kinds...I use the ENZ - anyone else use those? i have heard both good and bad about them - otherwise which ones to you use? I know this is a strange request, but PLEASE go onto the trojan web page: http://www.trojancondoms.com/default.asp... ... and tell me which one you use and trust...i dont feel like being a dad or getting an STD or anything, adn please dont answer "I dont use a condom" or "Keep it in your pants" becasue that is not helpful. If you use a different brand, please tell me which brand and what kind...I am just trying to pick the absolute best condom. THANKS!!!!!

2007-11-16 17:17:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

-Cant do it online, the guys there don't email me back and I'm too cheap to pay full price only to have them not email me back and I don't want yahoo to know my credit card number.
-can't do it at school. Most guys at my school go for the blond haired bimbos (skinny, wearing tube tops all the time and a short skirt and act like a ditz).
-can't do it at work. I don't have a job.
-can't do it at church. Most guys there are nerdy and those people that go to my school, some go to my school.

And since I'm neither blond, nor white, I'm a minority and white washed, I'm having a hard time finding guys. most guys I like are white, if not white, then persian or middle eastern. The asians are no where to be found in my school and if there were some... I don't know, I just don't belong anywhere! Please help! I feel unwanted!

2007-11-16 17:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Singles & Dating

All the people that I take up as my friends end up dissapointing me. Do I just pick bad friends?

2007-11-16 17:16:10 · 7 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Friends

Guy's do you like girl's that are Experienced OR Girl's that still have there Virginity?


I'm 17 And most of my friends have had sex already...So im just askin do guys like Experienced or Unexperienced???


And can you tell me Why you like Experienced or Unexperienced.

2007-11-16 17:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by JP023 2 in Singles & Dating

lately ive been attracting all the wrong kind of guys, its not the way im acting because the problem occurs when im out on a girls night or waiting at the bar for a drink. i attract the real rowdy guys and ...lets just say the wrong kind of guys altogether. it gets a little out of hand sometimes because just cos the guys are drunk they seem to think that its ok to feel ur legs and hold u and insist on buying me drinks etc one nite i had a security guard standing near me and he was telling sum guys to leave me alone (i didnt ask him to do it tho, but i guess he culd tell i didnt like it).
anyway how do i get these kind of guys to leave me alone??

2007-11-16 17:14:47 · 2 answers · asked by audrina001 3 in Singles & Dating

What is the best place to get engagement rings? Also, what is the amount I should spend? Any specifics, such as carat size? Also, which do you think is better: princess cut or round cut?

I am a student and I only have a few thousand dollars in savings (less than 10 grand). My only pay is from the Reserves and I'll be graduating with student loan debt.

2007-11-16 17:14:14 · 19 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Weddings

I like this girl at my job. She is always getting so much attention from all the other guy employees, I'm sure she is used to it, and she is nice to everyone, including me.

I don't want to be "just another guy" that has his mouth wide open and follows her around trying to hit on her all the time, even though I really like her. She flirts with me sometimes, but I assume she does with all the other guys too.

How should I act around her to get her to like me?

2007-11-16 17:11:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out tonight,I was at the bar and my ex was there she looked so good...having fun, while I sat there miserable.
I am going to the same function as her tomorrow. Do I bring a hot girl with me to see how she reacts? What would you do?

2007-11-16 17:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were in love, I could tell he was by how he treated me. When we broke up he said itd be a long time before there was anyone else. He said this on his own i didnt make him promise it and I was special to him and he might see a future with us. 2 weeks later he gets drunk and makes out with some random girl. That sucked, he was my first love and first guy I slept with. I waited until I was 21 and in love to get screwed over like this, seriously? Did I mean that little? wow. And I dont want religious answers how you wait till marriage.

2007-11-16 17:08:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can give some examples? I am a girl and I often get confused when a guy likes/cares or is in love with a girl!

2007-11-16 17:08:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had the perfect girl and you took her for granted...you ended the relationship but you thought she would be calling and being all upset about it and so on and so on..but instead she never did anything..and then you start to feel like you really messed up!?
If so what did you do to win her back? Or did you even try.?

I wrote her but she never wrote back..what does that mean?

2007-11-16 17:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 17:06:44 · 26 answers · asked by Breezy 4 in Weddings

if you were granted one wish what would it be?

2007-11-16 17:05:58 · 2 answers · asked by ninnaluv 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-16 17:05:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I asked this question before but people took it the wrong way just agreeing that for the most part that they use Trojans, but didnt say which kind they use and trust - they have many kinds...I use the ENZ - anyone else use those? i have heard both good and bad about them - otherwise which ones to you use? I know this is a strange request, but PLEASE go onto the trojan web page: http://www.trojancondoms.com/default.aspx?jumpFrame=trojan_world ... and tell me which one you use and trust...i dont feel like being a dad or getting an STD or anything, adn please dont answer "I dont use a condom" or "Keep it in your pants" becasue that is not helpful. If you use a different brand, please tell me which brand and what kind...I am just trying to pick the absolute best condom. THANKS!!!!!

2007-11-16 17:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The main manager at where I work is terrible at her job. She has no planning, organizational, or communication skills whatsoever. Nearly everyone can't stand her. Because of this, she finds people to pick on for a while. Now it's my turn. I used to work my butt off, but I only get hassled by her spazzing out under pressure so I've stopped working as hard (but still doing all I'm told to do). Last week, she moved me to a different area because I wasn't "positive" or "dedicated" enough in the first area. A lot of people were shocked saying I did more for my area than anyone. Now she's basically accused me of stealing 5 dollars (seriously) and had a security guy talk to me. I've worked there 5 years and never stole a darn thing. I'm looking for a different job, but how can I deal with this until I get one? I'm trying to leave her alone, but every week it's another false accusation!

2007-11-16 17:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships