what do people cosider to be normal in this day and time? I was in a abusive relationshipand I really don't no

Answer 1

There is NEVER EVER a reason to hit someone or to let yourself be hit. Not EVER. If a guy hits you, it's not normal and you need to get away -- FAST.

It's also not normal to be with someone who constantly puts you down and belittles you.

In a GOOD normal relationship, you are supportive of each other and you actually LIKE each other. You would NOT hurt each other, not physically or mentally.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Physical abuse is not acceptable, nor is it normal. A person can be arrested for physical abuse. Verbal abuse is not acceptable either, but a lot of people get away with it.

It often comes down to "what" you are willing to tolerate.... Me? I wouldn't tolerate it at all...... no time, no where, not ever. I'd get away from it and move on.