I know were broken up and he can do what he want but it still hurt?

Question

My boyfriend and I were in love, I could tell he was by how he treated me. When we broke up he said itd be a long time before there was anyone else. He said this on his own i didnt make him promise it and I was special to him and he might see a future with us. 2 weeks later he gets drunk and makes out with some random girl. That sucked, he was my first love and first guy I slept with. I waited until I was 21 and in love to get screwed over like this, seriously? Did I mean that little? wow. And I dont want religious answers how you wait till marriage.

Answer 1

Guys, just like so many girls, act in stupid ways that don't reflect their emotions during periods when they're hurt. The broke up hurt him, so he went looking for instant gratification and ego-stroking somewhere else. He loved you and you know that so appreciate your relatonship for what it was. Giving up your virginity does not mean that you're any less of a beautiful woman, or that you have any less to offer the next man in your life. So many girls find out that they lost it to someone that didn't even care for them- never take your situation for granted.

Answer 2

Break-ups are never easy. It will always hurt. You just can't outsmart pain. It's inevitable when you're in a relationship, especially when you're young and just starting to enter the dating universe. And him moving on so quickly has absolutely nothing to do with you. It's time you just pick up the pieces of yourself and move on.

Answer 3

See my answer in your previous post, it's not religious but a bit snippy.

Answer 4

I have NEVER understood this attitude. If you are broken up, you aren't TOGETHER anymore and why, why, WHY would you care what he does?

You need to let him go and get on with your life.