Continuation of last question- How do I talk to my girl about doing stuff?

Question

I am 18 years old. I have already done stuff with my girlfriend and she had no objections, but we never have time alone. I mean yeah we get to go to dinner and a movie or something like that, but I mean we never have "alone" time. How do I bring up the subject that I want to do stuff? help please

Answer 1

You ask her if she would want your relationship to change and have get more serious. does she want you two to have sex now and then. You either get OK or o sh**, you bring this up when you are someplace quiet that you two can talk candidly, and bring it up. There is no magic for this, you just come out with it and hope for the best.

Answer 2

Car rides my man.

They're the perfect time to talk about this kind of stuff(not to mention if you live in a pretty rural area you can do more than just talk).

There's a reason movies always refer to things like make out point. For many people that was the only way they had a chance to do the stuff you're talking about.

Honestly though, the best way to get to the point is to start and then when the environment starts to become an issue, that's when you suggest moving somewhere more private.

So if you start making out in a movie theater, if things are going well, you could suggest you know we could continue this back a my place, or something like that.

Don't just suggest going straight to it, you'll fall on your face with that approach.

Build up her desire to do it, she'll be more willing to go somewhere then.

Answer 3

First off, don't use the term stuff. You have a vocabulary beyond a 4th grader, so please use it. (I am not trying to be insulting or anything, but honestly, "stuff"...)

Nextly, be up front, be real, just don't be in her face. Plan ahead, ask your girl to select a least one day out of the week or a few days out of the month that you two can spend together one-on-one no interruptions.

On a one-on-one day sit down and have a discussion. Don't make it a demand thing, but really build a list of what options that you tow have together as a couple. Look through magazines and books to get ideas on what you two will be comfortable doing together or experimenting with. Be real, be gentlemen, and be respectful.

I also recommend looking into literature by my favorite author Lou Paget.

Answer 4

Fagettabout the "doing stuff" and do the romantic thing. Walks on the beach by moonlight, music concerts in the park or Hollywood bowl, walks in the mountains, stuff where you automatically get alone time. The stuff happens automatically ...as long as you don't push it.

Answer 5

i've found in the past that girls dont like you to "ask" to do stuff.

try going to a crappy movie thats been in the theater for 2 weeks and sit in the back. say something like "man this movie blows" and kiss her on the neck or something.

the most important thing, dont half-*** it, make it count.

Answer 6

Yea, you're amazing. (or in case your are in difficulty-free words a random personality posting a % of a few random female then, yea, she's amazing.) i love your eyes. They seems extremely cool and ambitious lol. :) I also love your brown right now hair. I usually choose my hair changed into once right now.

Answer 7

take a cold shower and rethink what you just asked? Are you trying to tell me that you can't just come out and say it...does she regret having done stuff with you? If not just take her by the hand and pull...if she resists..stop...otherwise, she is waiting for you.....to grow hair.

Answer 8

When you are deciding what to do, suggest going to your house where you can just enjoy each others company and maybe more *)

Answer 9

maybe suggest going to a motel instead of a movie :)

Answer 10

when you're kissing her goodbye, whisper in her ear that you need more "alone time" she'll get the drift and make sure it happens : )