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-Cant do it online, the guys there don't email me back and I'm too cheap to pay full price only to have them not email me back and I don't want yahoo to know my credit card number.
-can't do it at school. Most guys at my school go for the blond haired bimbos (skinny, wearing tube tops all the time and a short skirt and act like a ditz).
-can't do it at work. I don't have a job.
-can't do it at church. Most guys there are nerdy and those people that go to my school, some go to my school.

And since I'm neither blond, nor white, I'm a minority and white washed, I'm having a hard time finding guys. most guys I like are white, if not white, then persian or middle eastern. The asians are no where to be found in my school and if there were some... I don't know, I just don't belong anywhere! Please help! I feel unwanted!

2007-11-16 17:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Kristina, thank you for thinking that I'm young, but no I'm not, I'm way over 21. I just sound young hehe! And no, this is my question, so anyone offended by my question should not take it so personal Jezuz!

2007-11-16 17:30:22 · update #1

and no I'm not doing the thumbs either!
ANd no on the craiglist thing, i heard someone died recently from that.

2007-11-16 17:30:58 · update #2

Kristina, I like what you have to say but I think I've waited long enough. I'm almost done with college and looking to settle down soon! Thanks for the advice however.

2007-11-16 17:36:00 · update #3

Oh well, I'll keep trying somehow.

2007-11-16 17:36:48 · update #4

7 answers

Be patient. You will find your match when you least expect it. Quit looking for him. In the mean time have some fun and enjoy life with family and friends.

2007-11-16 17:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by James Bond 6 · 3 0

From the sounds of your question, you're probably young...there's no rush in getting a boyfriend. I was 21 when I got my first boyfriend and we've been together almost 10 months now...planning on moving in together after I graduate college. My point is....good things come to those who wait. Just sit tight and focus on yourself. When you're happy with you and where you stand in life, the right person will find you. Another cliche that worked for me was the whole "it finds you when you least expect it/when you're not looking." I wasn't looking for a boyfriend when I found mine....we just happened upon each other and it developed.

2007-11-17 01:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kristina 3 · 0 1

erm funny question ! love just comes by chances , no one can answer u ....good luck any way n dont worry , 21 years old is still young, we have the whole wolrd ahead , just keep looking around and live as optimistic as possible ,love will knock on ur heart , sometimes love is not reallt too far to see ......by the way , i am 21 too

2007-11-17 01:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Yahoo! Answers isn't really a dating site. You can cruise over to http://www.craigslist.org and click on the city nearest you and look under 'men seeking women' to find that dream date.

Good luck! - Stuart

2007-11-17 01:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Stuart 7 · 2 2

If you need a boyfriend, you'll either end up with a needy boyfriend, or you'll end up being a needy girlfriend.

2007-11-17 01:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 1 0

aww, dont feel so down! if you need to talk it out I am here but dont just jump into anything!

it'll work out, dont worry

2007-11-17 01:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 2 0

wow this paragraph is all wrong. i think you may be meeting quality men but they are turned off by your views.

2007-11-17 01:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0 3

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